Would you start having a relationship with your ex again, if you saw that they changed?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

No. Trust is the ONLY thing that matters to me, as my life has depended on it more than once. If someone's an "ex" to me, it means I lost faith/trust in them. That can never be regained in my book. My father used to tell me sayings at bedtime when I was little. 1 of them was, "If someone does something once, they'll do it again." I've found that to be true every single time thus far. Thieves, drug addicts, bullies, con men, all of them... every time.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Most people don't change that much. The idea is simply wishful thinking on the part of the lonely and forlorn.

provokeesmokee · Accepted Answer

For one, yes, but the change would be her sexuality - possible, but unlikely.

My exgf would also need to process and move past her crush on her married American friend.

I'd try again if she knew herself better, wasn't ace, and had more confidence. But I don't think that's gonna happen before I find someone else, lmao.

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

He would be a good option but I believe I have better ones. I've liked two guys in the last 2 years.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

No. Someone who I loved - died. He can’t change back

slatyb · Answer

Maybe one of them. She was brilliant and beautiful but a bit OCD -- she was almost always on 11. Now I'm happily married and that's not going to change.

ariadneR · Answer

Dear God no. He can go suck a big fat bag of... It was an extremely toxic relationship, but I learned a lot from it and I am never going down that road again

DermalPunch · Answer

Changed how? Which ex? If my ex husband truly changed I would give it a go with him. But a boyfriend or something no. Too risky.

electromagnetic · Answer

Absolutely not. They an ex for a reason and x is wayyyy to far down the alphabet list. No do-overs

Flower7 · Answer

No…disgusting! I would never want to date an ex again.

MemeSupreme · Answer

uh... not likely lol some things better left in the best you know?

Drumlin2001 · Answer

No. Cause I we had fundamentally different opinions on a particular subject. I'd forgive her for how she behaved at the end, but would never forget

Midnight_Kiss · Answer

I'd rather poke myself in the eye with a rusty nail, than waste an ounce of energy on my ex.

Kacka · Answer

no, its not even possible unless persin never been over it yet, and was waiting all this time, but when person decides is ober by he's own choice, there no chance it will change by it self

andreasderjuengere · Answer

No one changes his/her/its/whatever basic traits. So: No.

exitseven · Answer

I ended up marrying someone else. I think I am better off.

sheikalana · Answer

No way. I'm married I have zero intentions of ever getting in touch with any of my exes.

BlackJeep · Answer

I can't. When it's over, it's over and I can't catch feelings again.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I'd give it a try. Especially if we had fun and the sex was good!

genericname85 · Answer

people don't change. the reason we broke up aren't suddenly gone.

elontesler3 · Answer

no, her lower parts wouldve been used up and she has no respect for you after that

katiesmuff · Answer

No I don't think I could do that!

Lyndsielee666 · Answer

I mean he died last month so

EmmaMary · Answer

No, absolutely not.

Iron_Man · Answer

No, I’ve got my girl

LemiaOfThunder · Answer

It would have to mark improvement

Subflics · Answer

Lol nope

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

Hell ✌️ da 🚫

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Oh hell no.

KaDooKan · Answer

never

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