Would you go back with an ex? Why or why not? Would you do something differently with that relationship?

[Anonymous]

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Since I am in a relationship, I have no desire to get back with an ex.
However, if I am speaking hypothetically, I would maybe get back with my first ex, and I would not get back with my second ex.
I would maybe get back with my first ex because he was great, he was a kind, handsome, gentle giant. We both struggled with our own lives, he has some mental illnesses, which led him to always want to go on a break because he was struggling. He was very sweet, but he refused to be consistent with therapy or medications to help him, and I don’t think I helped him either, he was just emotionally unavailable most of the time.
My second ex, I wouldn’t get back with him because he was abusive. I realized it a little too late. Since I had already dealt with a very emotionally unavailable boyfriend in the past, I thought this guy was normal and what he was doing was normal. He also wanted to go on a break constantly. I think if I did anything different, it would just be the same. Not worth going back.

[Sour-rose]

My ex couldn't keep his damn hands off of other girls... when in high school. And that's when I realized I prefer girls. Just because our relationship was off of a mere "i like you". Probably would do something different if I had any feelings left for him.

[Waldoe]

yeah... I wouldn't 'cheat' on any of them... or all of them... I suffered from Very low self-esteem, I was driven to prove that I was attractive, intellectually, sexually, emotionally... to women... and I just kept trying to prove it to myself... the problem was within myself...

[exitseven]

Now that I am older I think I would. I have changed a lot and maybe she has changed too. I think 30 years is long enough to harbor a grudge,

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[AviatorTom]

If a person got back together with their ex, it would almost have to be something different, or the relationship would break up (again) for the same reason as the first time.

[jamesgoldman]

Yes because it ended amicably over going long term long distance and this time get married and move to Poland with her

[leestella1999]

I won't go back with my ex if he keep treating like trash. I would go back if we have a fight and he grow mature. But if he is not mature then I should move on

[Alyssa_11]

I wouldn’t go back to any of my exes. Some I dated cause I was bored, some I dated because I was lonely, and some I got betrayed by very deeply.

[Drumlin2001]

No. We disagree on a subject that I feel strongly about.

[MysteriousDarkness]

I would not for two reasons.
1. They all ended on bad terms.
2. I am in a happy 8½ relationship.

[dudeinohio]

No. The same issues would always be there. Move forward, never backward.

[grega239]

Why?

So i can suffer again?

[Asker]

Touché! Haha 💯😅

[Anonymous]

Nope. Women only get one shot with me. If they blow it then that's on them.

[TX651]

Yes, but would need to talk about what the problem was and what we need to do the change it.

[mb120101]

No I was mistreated by both of my exes

[IveGotNoName]

Depends on how it ended

[Iron_Man]

It’s been way too many years

[Uptowngirl88]

No move on it didn't work

[noohair]

The past is past. I go forward.

[TheMajesticKing777]

😂😂😂

[Brandi555]

No chance

[In_Trance]

Never