Why are so many girls selfish? why do girls think it’s ok for her to do something but not ok for her partner?

[Finchie40]

Why I no longer jump into relationships with girls’ Most girls think they want love and think they want a relationship but the second she receives it she starts to lose interest , or she starts to get bored , so she doesn’t know what she really wants anymore, why most guy’s today do not want marriage because girls think it’s ok for her
To do certain things but not ok for her partner, Most girls are vulnerable to their friends , and prioritizes her friends over her partner and then she wonders why her partner leaves her or cheats on her , For love to grow , both partners have to remove selfishness for each other and make each other their top priority over everyone , Most girls will do that in the beginning , but as time goes on she feels she is missing out on things , She has friends that pull her away from her relationship that feed her head that all men are assholes blah blah blah , Those friends wish they had what she has , I’m sorry but I have witness to much nonsense from girls’ that choose to be selfish , that don’t understand what it means to remove selfishness for her partner , these girls will go out with their friends and flirt with other Guy’s thinking it’s innocent but if her man talks to another girl all Hell breaks loose , So if you girls want to last in a relationship stop being selfish period

[EmmaMary]

BOLLOX, complete and utter fucking BOLLOX

Why I no longer jump into relationships with guys’ Most guys think they want love and think they want a relationship but the second he receives it he starts to lose interest , or he starts to get bored, so he doesn’t know what he really wants anymore, why most girls today do not want marriage because guys think it’s ok for him.
To do certain things but not ok for his partner, Most guys are vulnerable to their friends , and prioritizes his friends over his partner and then he wonders why his partner leaves him or cheats on him , For love to grow , both partners have to remove selfishness for each other and make each other their top priority over everyone , Most guys will do that in the beginning , but as time goes on he feels he is missing out on things , He has friends that pull him away from his relationship that feed his head that all girls are assholes blah blah blah , Those friends wish they had what he has , I’m sorry but I have witness to much nonsense from guys’ that choose to be selfish , that don’t understand what it means to remove selfishness for his partner , these guys will go out with their friends and flirt with other girls thinking it’s innocent but if his girl talks to another guy all Hell breaks loose , So if you guys want to last in a relationship stop being selfish period.

Purely out of curiosity do you agree with the above statement? No, I bet you don't!

[Finchie40]

Actually I do agree , Yes guy’s can be selfish as well , it just seems Girls’ hold the title for most selfish when it comes to relationships, It doesn’t really
Take much to keep a guy satisfied , but to keep a girl satisfied theirs a whole
List of shit that needs to happen before she is satisfied

[EmmaMary]

Naturally and respectfully I have to completely disagree with you.
However being two civilised human beings, I feel sure we can mutually agree to differ and close the subject.

[Finchie40]

Absolutely , I am not here to argue , I am just asking a question based of my experiences and what I have witnessed , and heard statistically , it doesn’t really mean shit to be honest , just something I wanted to hear what other’s think

[EmmaMary]

Thank you so much for the AI BC.

[Midnight_Kiss]

I stopped reading when you tried to justify cheating. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Finchie40]

I didn’t justify cheating at all? I was just saying why most cheating occurs in relationships

[Anonymous]

This is a double edged sword. I'll be the first one to say women should be completely equal to men. But it's unfortunately probably the biggest reason women are the way they are today.

Throughout history women have been relegated to being wives and mothers, THAT'S IT! It wasn't till the last 50 years or so that women have had the social acceptance to pursue whatever future they want. The drawback is that also means they're allowed to make as many mistakes as they want. And unfortunately there are a lot of women who do not make very good decisions. Some women pursue a string of loveless relationships many times producing fatherless kids. Which if they women just produce the next generations toxic women. It keeps the strip clubs stocked with talent but only produces the next generation of toxic women.

I wish I had answer to this problem man. Pandora was let out of the box. We just have to live with it.

The best advice I can give guys is don't tolerate it/her if she's selfish. Always remember you're the guy, you're the logical one. There are 3.5 billion women on the planet. In this respect she is not special. Don't tolerate her antics beyond a point.

[BigDog1989]

I've been selfish. I'm being selfish right now, with deciding not to go to my cousins wedding because every wedding I've ever gone to, I've had something bad happen to me and im tired of it

I'm a dude

[Anonymous]

This doesn't sound like middle aged women so I'm guessing you're describing the young women you experience around you.

I'd hope there are still sensible, loyal and dutiful women out there somewhere with which to grow your future life.

[LiamJHayden]

I find most people selfish.

[gothbxtch]

like men can’t be selfish?

[_piotr]

Can, but usually are not.

[Finchie40]

Men can be selfish as well , I am not going to deny that. But it seems Girls’ hold the title for most selfish, when it comes to relationships,. statistics prove 70 percent of divorces are caused by females , Most females think they were put on Earth to be pampered and taken care of , not really having to lift a finger , her job is to find a man the can support her and provide for her , she will find herself a guy that gives her all of that and it still isn’t good enough , the second she lays her eyes on another man that she feels is better that her partner she will spread her legs for him , Most guy’s only cheat on girls that make him feel like he is unloved and unwanted and unappreciative, she withholds intimacy and affection from him and makes him feel like he has to earn it from her , Guy’s mainly cheat for Lust but a Girl cheats for Status , I have witnessed and experience so many girls cheat on their partner’s because he lost his job , or he forgot to take the trash out , She can never truly appreciate what she has in front of her , she appreciates what she doesn’t have in front of her. a guy will not cheat on a girl that values him and loves him and appreciates him , that doesn’t withhold intimacy and affection from him , that knows how to remove selfishness for him , Most girls want their cake and want to eat it to , she doesn’t know how to commit like most Guy’s do

[slatyb]

For the same reason so many men are selfish.