I don't know how to end my Relationship?

[Anonymous]

We have been together for a little over 1 year. I'm super soft-hearted, a little emotional etc. He's completely the opposite - emotionally unavailable.

I don't know how we made it work this far tbh. He keeps making these jokes that offends me. When I get hurt, he drags it even further till I reach a crying point - if i cry / react he'll leave me for the day i. e either disconnect the call, block me, breakup or sometimes he makes obvious excuses ( he tells me his phone battery is too low. It's o 98% which is too low for him and he can't talk - I don't know if that makes sense)

Here's how a convo goes:

Offensive joke (eg. her body is better than yours, you are not pretty, her XYZ is better than yours, you are a waste of time") ---> me reacting ---> him calling me crazy and other names --> him blocking me.

This is not the relationship I wanted. When I was too sad because both my parents had serious diseases he told me im too negative and people who have had worse in the world dont cry like me because they are mature and strong.

I don't feel like staying with him but don't have the strength to leave. Please please help me. Any suggestions. any other pov would work.

[slatyb]

Are you living together?
No? Then just tell him "sorry, it's not working for me. Have a nice life."
Yes? Who's name is on the lease?
His? Find another place to live, even a friend's place you can stay for a while. Get a bunch of friends and move your stuff out.
Yours? Tell him it's not working and he needs to find his own place.

[ventustalks]

I think you are attached to him in a toxic way. Leaving your boyfriend is a hard thing to do as you are now accustomed to having him around but believe me having him around will be harder than not having him around. I think you can break up with him in a crowded place like cafê or maybe you can put it in a text message to let him know before inviting him to sit together somewhere to say goodbye. I know it is hard but you can do it and you'll be doing great after healing.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

You need to leave and now. Don't even hesitate and don't be nice about it. He's being emotionally abusive. Tell him to go f himself literally and that you won't put up with it.

[Vikkrram]

Just leave him by telling that what you feels for him.