Boyfriend met up one on one with a female friend whilst abroad?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend is abroad in his home country. He has a female friend who he told me he spent the day with. I’m kinda jealous. Could there be something going on?

[Anonymous]

It's definitely possible. ﾠ

[BoobSlayer]

Oliverlogan263 should have gotten this award. I demand a recount.

[BoobSlayer]

Boobslayer spends time with his female friends, and he reassures his girlfriend that there was nothing to worry about. He explains that his outing with his female friend is purely platonic. Boobslayer tells her that he and his female friend had been friends for many years and that he trusted her completely.

He will also go on to explain that his female friend is like a sister to him and that she respects Boobslayer just as much as he respected her. Boobslayer then reassures his girlfriend that the female friend respects his relationship with her and that she would never do anything to jeopardize it.

Boobslayer then adds that even if his female friend did try something, she would be no match for the melons, boobies, tits, milkers, fried eggs, chesticles, honkers, bazoombas, coconuts, fiery biscuits, cantaloupes, boom booms, and jugs which his girlfriend so generously shares with him. He said that no other woman could ever compare to her beauty and that no other woman could ever make him feel as loved and appreciated as his girlfriend did.

Boobslayer tells his girlfriend not to be jealous and that she has nothing to worry about. He tells her that he loves her very much and that he would never do anything to jeopardize their relationship. He then asks her to trust him and to not let her jealousy get the better of her, even though he's obsessed with ganzoongas, and his lady friend has giant melons that she could accidentally lay upon him.

Boobslayer comforts her by saying that he is glad to be with his girlfriend and that he was looking forward to their future together making tiny Boobslayers. He tells her that it is the thought of her and the memories they had shared together that made his time abroad so special. Boobslayer then declares his love for his girlfriend and asks her to marry him and reasures her that there will be a circus at the marriage and not to worry about anything and to just enjoy the time they had together.

[ALN29391]

My boyfriend did the same thing. We are long distance and he was visiting me in the U. K. The day he visited me he arranged to meet up with an old female colleague for coffee before he met me. Drop him. He’s not worth it. I’ll be dumping my boyfriend very soon

[Oliverlogan263]

Spending time one-on-one with a friend of the opposite sex isn't necessarily cause for concern on its own. However, given your jealousy, there are a few things to consider:

1. Does your boyfriend normally keep you updated about his female friends and interactions with them? Or is spending time alone with this friend out of the ordinary?

2. How close is their friendship? Are they just acquaintances or do they have a long history and consider each other close friends?

3. Has your boyfriend given you any reasons in the past not to trust him when it comes to other women? Has he been inappropriate or crossed boundaries?

4. Does your gut instinct tell you something is "off" about this situation beyond simple jealousy? Listen to your intuition - it can be a guide.

5. How transparent was your boyfriend about meeting up with this friend? Did he hide details or volunteer information freely?

6. What kinds of things did they do together during their time? Normal friend activities would be less concerning than intimate date-like activities.

7. How does this female friend feel about your relationship? Is she respectful or does she cross boundaries with your boyfriend?

Ultimately, open communication and transparency are the keys to a trusting relationship. If details about this friendship or their meetup make you uncomfortable, have an honest discussion with your boyfriend to set boundaries that make you both feel secure. Watch his reaction closely - defensiveness may be a red flag. But try not to accuse without cause.

For now, trust but verify. If his behavior doesn't change or more details come to light, revisit the issue. But jealousy alone isn't reason not to trust him unless he has given you other reasons in the past. Hope this helps! Let me know if you have any other questions.