Should you be cruel and abusive to your partner to make them lose weight?

[Anonymous]

Like, make them insecure and destroy their confidence to please you.

[inhua]

it's perfectly fine to abuse men. if he won't lose weight, he's a fat disgusting slob but if he wants his partner to lose weight, he's a shallow piece of shit who can't overlook her flaws

https://www.youtube.com/embed/XNrWuZV3jjw

[Asker]

Can we not do this? You can answer without blowing things out of proportion.

[Asker]

Whatever trauma you’re dealing with, you need to go talk to a therapist. Don’t bring that here to my question.

[inhua]

it's not blown out of proportion. men are only valued as long as they provide some importance to someone or society. fat men only bring value to McDonald's and KFC, the rest of society has no use for them and the Body Positivity Movement won't accept them either

[Asker]

Oh. My. Fucking. God! Seriously, dude. Can we not do this? Can we seriously not fucking do this? There was absolutely no reason for you to bring this up. You just wanted to start something because you were bored.

[Asker]

If you want to bring this up, make your own post about it. Jesus Christ 🤦‍♀️

[Asker]

And if you read all the answers I got, no one except you, brought this up. They all gave me normal answers. Why the hell can’t you do that for once?

[inhua]

it's the same answers to the question you already knew the answer to

[Asker]

No, you just wanted to start something. You only brought up about men when I was talking about relationships in general.

[provokeesmokee]

Lmao, good way to get dumped. So, yeah, you would encourage them to lose dead weight - namely, YOUR dead weight.

Positive reinforcement, encouragement, and support work better for changing people's perspectives and mindsets.

But why are you dating someone you think is ugly in the first place?

Break up. Go date someone who meets your standards.

Better yet, set a date with your therapist. Because that's abuse and you need serious mental help.

[ShesRad80]

never -- abuse is never ok, abuse is never healthy or motivational.

[ohsheeT]

No only a cruel and not caring person would do that what you do is you help them by doing the same journey with them it's positive that's not negative

[Spongebobssocks]

No not at all. But I also think its rude to not point it out. If you love someone you'd want them to be healthy

[Smashingdoozy]

No that's a one way ticket to an eating disorder. As proven by myself.

[madhatters4]

no. simply no.

abuse should never be a characteristic of interpersonal relationships

[Freedom_Enjoyer]

No, but you do have the option to say "Hubby or Honey, if you don't drop the weight by x lbs/kg within y time frame, we're done". Provided, of course, you put in the effort to look appealing to your partner.

[jahaims]

No and you shouldn't push them down the stairs either. If you need anything else this obvious pointed out to you lmk.

[HelpfulWoman]

No. That's just abusive.

[mobiusforniner]

Um... like, no?

[Hithere4567]

No, that's horrible

[Anonymous]

This is GaG not iFunny

[DerekC321]

No that's not cool

[Anonymous]

No, that’s something 9 year old bullies would do.

[Lakeshore]

Absolutely not.

[Anonymous]

wow you're sick in the head

[dudeinohio]

No way