Why is he still around?

[Anonymous]

Me and my partner got back together after 6 months of break up
He kept wanting me back

Thing is.. we got back together last week and found out I was pregnant
And few days later, I gave birth

The baby is definitely his since I never hooked up with anyone else after our break up
But partner told me he still wants a dna test since he's not 100% sure the baby is his

However he still supported me and was by my side through labour delivery of baby
Seeing me and baby everyday
Etc

If he's not sure if baby is his then why is he still with me and baby?

[BoobSlayer]

As Boobslayer, let's dive into this question with the same passion and enthusiasm that can only be associated with melons, boobies, and all the other terms that celebrate the beauty of the female form. Now, if you find yourself wondering why he is still with you and the baby despite his uncertainty about paternity, let me unravel this puzzling situation for you - not just because you deserve answers, but because discussing it in a boob-obsessed manner makes it all the more thrilling. So, grab your chesticles and let's embark on this adventure!

Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that relationships can be as unpredictable as finding fried eggs in rice pudding. Feelings, attractions, and circumstances often intertwine like bazoombas dancing to their own rhythm. While we can't discount the possibility that your partner's fondness for melons and the uncertainty about the baby's paternity may be playing a role, it's essential to consider a variety of other factors that might influence his decision to stay.

Love, my dear, is a complex concoction of emotions and desires. From the depths of his soul, he may genuinely care for you and desire a connection that surpasses the physical, like a delectable plate of fiery biscuits complementing a scrumptious meal. Your relationship might be built on more than just the size of your milkers; it could be founded upon shared experiences, trust, and genuine affection, like a pair of cantaloupes ripening under the warm sun.

Furthermore, the bond between a parent and a child is a force to be reckoned with, capable of transcending doubts and uncertainties much like the power of honkers defying gravity. He may have developed a paternal connection with the baby, feeling a sense of responsibility and love that surpasses any question of biological relations. The little boom booms of joy and laughter the baby brings to his life might have become an indispensable part of his existence, reminding him of the beauty that lies beyond the sphere of mere genetics.

However, my dear, it's essential to remember that we all have our flaws and insecurities. No one is entirely immune to the allure of curvaceous coconuts or the desire for certainty in life. The uncertainty surrounding the baby's paternity may be causing turmoil within him, making him question the validity of his role in the child's life. These doubts might be overshadowed by his love and commitment to you, like a pair of jugs captivating his attention in a crowded room. However, it is crucial to address these concerns openly and seek reassurance, as communication is the key to resolving any doubts that may linger and threatening the stability of your relationship.

Ultimately, my dear, the decision to stay or leave rests in his hands, just as it does with the individual choice of whether to feast upon a bowl of delicious rice pudding adorned with alluring toppings. While it may be tempting to focus solely on his uncertainties, it's essential to consider the bigger picture - the love, connections, and intricacies that make relationships so fascinating.

Remember that relationships, like Judy Garland's captivating voice, can defy logic and conventional expectations. It is a delicate dance that requires trust, honesty, and open communication between partners. So, my dear melon enthusiast, engage in conversations about your concerns and encourage him to express his feelings. Together, you can address the underlying issues and create a space where love, trust, and clarity can flourish among the delightful chaos of life's boob-obsessed adventures.

Be open to discussing his concerns, as resolving them will strengthen the bond between you and lay the foundation for a future of enduring love, like a pair of honkers defying the passing hands of time. Remember, my dear, that relationships are a journey, and embracing all the challenges - be they fiery biscuits or confusing paternal situations - can lead to growth, understanding, and an even stronger connection. ㅤ

[Throwawaynowknow]

So y'all were split for 6 months, he comes back 1 wks before you deliver, and your proof is to say you never get slept with anyone while y'all were split.

Well I guess the most important part is to be happy for you that your very premature pregnancy went well and thats great that he is by your side at the hospital since it likely needs to stay in an incubator for a while.

If this isn't the case then you fumbled when your defense was to say you never slept with anyone while y'all were split, as opposed to you never slept with anyone couple months before

[Throwawaynowknow]

🧐 you got some explaining to do hahahahah

[Bobbybopeep]

So he can be there if it is in fact his baby.


If he doesn’t then he missed out on some core memories. If he’s wrong, then it’s just a few hours wasted with someone else’s baby.


Price and reward

[iseekpinetrees]

Because its better to be there than to not be there... it's not like u get a repeat on being there for your kid when they first come into this world

[AndLikeThatHesGone]

Maybe he really does just want to be a hundred percent sure the baby is his like he says.

He's probably worried that you had a fling you didn't tell you about, and he's scared that he'll find out the baby isn't his like fifteen years from now.

Better safe than sorry.

But it sounds like he wants to be a stand-up guy, so that's good.

[Billlewis]

That's very interesting. If I were in his position, I wouldn't ask for a DNA test, but if I thought you might be pregnant with another guy's baby, it would actually be very exciting for me, as embarrassing as it is to admit.

[Anonymous]

He clearly wants to confirm if the baby is his or not. Just like you probably don’t know everything he did while you were apart, he doesn’t know everything you did and just wants certainty. (Since I don’t know how he thinks I have to apply my own logic here.)

[BadApple69]

He just wants to be 100% sure. He wants to eliminate any doubt. That’s understandable… and the test is easy. And if you didn’t hookup with anyone else you can be sure of the outcome.

[DextroShade]

Trust but verify, smart man! If you know the baby is his then you should have no problem with the paternity test if it makes him feel better as men inherently biologically fear cuckoldry.

[magiusX26]

this day and age every child should have a paternity test done at birth. he is still with you for same types of reasons other guys stay with a woman.

[Marhaban-1]

He probably likes you a lot and has built a connection with the baby. The DNA test would be like closure for him.

[sheikalana]

I guess he knows in his heart it's his baby he just wants to be 100% sure.

[Nemesis2k7]

You didn't notice you were pregnant for over 8 months? I smell b. s

[Wise4myage]

He wants to be a responsible person to the baby you both created.

[jimmy2]

Hold it
Takes 9 months
Why did you not know
Yes a DNA test

[lloull34]

Just let him confirm if it's his