Why is there this trend for certain kinds of women to say "we don't owe you our emotional labor" while expecting us to deal with their craziness?

[worldscolide]

Seriously they will say things like that, then expect us to be there for them emotionally. It goes right along with the double standard women have where they say " I'm perfect the way I am but you had better be ready to fundamentally change for me if I want you to" and so on.

The way I see it is we need to be there for each other. My wife and I are there for each other, but tons of women feel like they are entitled to their man's emotional support and the like but the moment he needs the same they turn to the "I don't owe you my emotional labor" attitude and leave.

I just thank God I married someone who believes the truth about marriages, that it is hard work and a two way street and that we need to support each other..

[midnightmoon05]

No idea. Never heard. Reasons I don’t like dealing with women. I would not be friend with people who talk with such attitude. how to fix women with such attitude?

One of my former gag friend told me that all women are crazy lol… depends how crazy they are and men need to recognize what level of crazy they can deal with.

I love it when my hubby opens up to me emotionally. That’s how I know he is finally feeling safe with me and have accepted and trusts me. He is even opening up on gag to show he can love, want love and be loved. men are not so hard to understand.

[worldscolide]

You see, there is a problem here, you're actually one of the good ones.

[DizzyDesii]

Never heard that one from anyone dating someone. Maybe from bitter singles

[worldscolide]

It's a lot of "woke feminist" women that say that.

[Anonymous]

Women's propensity to cry, especially in response to criticism, may partly explain their solipsism, since no one dares tell them the truth to avoid making them cry.

[worldscolide]

Agreed.

[artgorgeous]

Don't be there, don't talk with these women, don't have any relationship with them. They are selfish narcissistic psychos.

[DextroShade]

If a woman says that she is for the streets.