Can you fall in love with someone's soul before even seeing them?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend had met online on some chatting app. He was then had no plans of getting into relationship as he was already terrified with his last breakup which happened almost 5 years back but still because of abrupt ending he was getting nightmares almost daily regarding that.

We were simply chatting with each other hadno plans of getting into relationship from both side. We have not seen each other for almost 3 months neither we felt it's need as we only cared about how is the person and how we feel talking to eachother.

But gradually attraction came and we finally seen each other after 3 months. I had seen him earlier but he wanted to wait more and he only asked for my pic when finally it was hard for him to stop his own curiousity.

Later feelings grew and he started getting feelings for making family with me. He confessed his feelings to me but said I'm free to choose him or reject him but he would try his best to win the race to win me.

Now both side families knows about us and we are planning to get married.

[Asker]

Awwww that's Soo Cute wish you a very happy married life

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks 🥰

[PippiTip]

I think it depends on what they are showing you. Have you met this person online? Do you talk often, and text often, have you engaged in video chat or is this just someone you follow? If you’re engaging daily, have seen them, talked with them, and they are showing you their authentic self then I think it is possible. But then you’d also have to define what soul means to you as well. So lots of variables to consider.

[Anonymous]

Not likely. I assume 50% of what is being told to me is a lie before I meet them. And I fully expect to meet somebody else when I do, and then deal with it then. Because it's a pretty safe bet.

[Anonymous]

Maybe they are a long lost soul that you are reacquainting with. Only the flesh is meeting for the first time.

[Little_Bumblebee]

You mean someone you're talking with online?

No. You can fall in love with who you believe they are and who they want you to perceive them as.

[Asker]

What if they are showing their truest self?

[Little_Bumblebee]

How would you know that?

[Asker]

Cause when people know no one can judge them & even if they do they don't really care about strangers

[Asker]

They show their truest selves like even introverts

[Little_Bumblebee]

Okay... just be careful out there

[Asker]

Hmm yeah right 👍

[boggboss]

Nope someone is watching too many movies

[balyai]

That's stupid

[Anonymous]

No I have mind