Would you rather have a careless partner who wouldn’t care if you cheated on them? Or an overly jealous overly protective partner?

[SolitarySolace]

Overly jealous / protective partner

Careless, someone who would allow for me to cheat

[madgoat]

The jealous oppression would eventually drive you apart, regardless of your behaviour.
However, if she didn't care one way or another, what does that say about your relationship?

[SolitarySolace]

Exactly. Which do you think you could accept more? Being cheated on constantly or jealous oppression?

[Drewtate]

If they don't care its a problem, you aren't long term

[AviatorTom]

I'd rather have someone who would allow me to cheat... but I wouldn't cheat... not my style. That would be better than an over-protective controlling woman.

[SolitarySolace]

If they’d allow you to cheat they’re going to do it too and if you don’t would you stay?

[NathanDavis]

neither...

but if you're asking me to shoot my own foot... NOT the crazy jealous, lol

I wouldn't cheat anyway

[SolitarySolace]

But if they allow you to cheat they would be cheating on you as well. You’d be cool with that?

[HelpfulWoman]

"careless" i guess. because we either accept it's a poly relationship, or just chill in a happy mono relationship.

[TruthBeTold77]

Well the voting results are interesting 🤔

[SolitarySolace]

How so in your opinion?

[TruthBeTold77]

I was kind of expecting more of the guys to vote the careless one.

[SolitarySolace]

I guess more women want to be able to cheat compared to men 🤷🏻‍♂️

[TruthBeTold77]

Ah I think men want to cheat whilst being cared about, it stokes their fragile little ego 😂

[SolitarySolace]

So you’re saying women don’t want to be cared about?

[TruthBeTold77]

Yes but I mean like women to get jealous and over their stupidness of cheating as a sign she cares as I said stokes his ego. where as if a woman cheats she'd prefer her partner not care that she is seeing someone else.

[TruthBeTold77]

If cheating a women wants a man to just let her do it. Men want women to care that they doing it because they think it shows she cares for him. They don't care for anyone but themselves.

[CoolCatMar1]

Overly jealous i don't wanna cheat and not gonna cheat