My fiance and I have about a 16 year age gap. Now that I am preparing our wedding a lot of guys my own age have got angry and upset over the fact that I am enaged to a smart , sweet intelligent men in his 40s. I don't understand , Why? I've seen with some of my other friends who happen to be married to mature guys in their 40s guys my agebstart to get angry about it and complain. Are 30 year old guys jelous at a men in his 40s for having everything together?
A lot of guys our age went through their twenties having all the girls chase after guys in their thirties. So we worked like crazy through our thirties to get established, only a lot of us have never had the ability to get established. Seeing you go after a guy in his 40s is probably being seen as a repeat of that situation, which could be seen as kind of a slap in the face.
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Their jealous and silly if he makes you happy then do it. Congratulations! And I wish you all the happiness in the world
It's more they are jealous that it is not them!
But someone else with a difference like years or Thier life together!
Really older guys are smarter and usually more together why date a 35 year old boy?
If I recall, you used to get pretty worked up about younger women dating older guys.
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All I can say is, I’m just surprised they go for younger women instead.
At 30 years old, a guy should definitely have himself put together.
But I cannot even begin to describe how damaged most of the girls my age are.
I’m just surprised they’re settling for absolute skanks instead. But I guess trash people like other trash people.
Did you, just meet this guy like 6 months ago? You’re already getting married? Maybe people are voicing their concern because they think you’re moving too fast.
Just by the question alone. Its none of his business who the girl dates or not.
There is no harm with dating a person is 10 years younger 20 years younger. But when it comes to 30 and 40 years younger hi I'm dating somebody's grandchildren. You go for a girl that's all I say it's nothing wrong with it in my book.
they just think the age gap is too old. they're probably like how can she like grandpas over younger guys like us
Sounds like jealousy.
who are these guys your age and why do u care what they think?
They’re jealous.
Jealousy.
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