How can I understand if my girlfriend lost her respect for me?

[Anonymous]

I know she likes and loves me but im not sure if this love comes from being attached or respecting me. How can i understand this? What are the hidden signs? Ty.

[slatyb]

You can't read her mind. How does she behave with you? Is she considerate? Do you enjoy being with her? Are you relaxed when you are with her? That's about as good as it gets.

[Asker]

She isn't considerate, i was enjoying her but overtime it became a burden to be with her. I'm never relaxed.

[slatyb]

"I'm never relaxed." End this miserable relationship.

[boggboss]

What do u mean hidden signs does she teat u with respect in general

[Asker]

It's really vague :|

[boggboss]

U don't know if your partner treats u with respect? Does she disrespect u are u made to feel belittled does she listen to what u say seem like she cares about your or your interests hwo are these things u don't already know mate

[Asker]

I think im forcing myself to believe the otherwise man, you know. I think it's obvious.

[boggboss]

Forcing yourself to believe what sorry?

[Asker]

Believe that everything is good

[Anonymous]

Things women do to show men respect:

* we listen to you when you need someone to talk to about your problems

* we don’t talk about relationship problems with our girl friends

* we take your opinions into consideration

* we don’t belittle you, nag you, or compare you to other men

* we are considerate of your thoughts, feelings, desires and opinions