If your partner was cheating on you multiple times with same person but told you that they had no feelings for them would you forgive them?

[Notfrommars]

Yes would forgive because they had no feelings for them

No, wouldn’t forgive-they were cheating!

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+1 y

By cheating I meant they had sex with the same person multiple times but say there are no feelings for this person

[Billlewis]

I'd definitely forgive them, and moreover, I'd encourage her to continue seeing him as often as was preferable for them both. I'm a firm believer that sex and love are two completely different things, and if she meets a guy who is a substantially better lover (which isn't hard to do in my case... lol), why would I want to try to discourage her from being intimate with him as often as is practical?

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am. I just started following you and I'd be thrilled if you'd like to follow me as well, if it's alright.

[AmeerX]

You really meant it 🤔

[Billlewis]

@AmeerX Yes sir. Being in a relationship with a woman who leads a fairly active social and sexual life, with unlimited freedom to date, bed and fuck other guys whenever she wants has been the ideal kind of arrangement for me for most of my adult life. That's not to say that problems never arise, but you could say that about any kind of relationship.

[AmeerX]

Is your wife as old as you? Because at her age people should really lose interest in it don't they?

[Billlewis]

@AmeerX I'm not married. I'm currently serving a woman who lives here six months out of the year and in Miami, with her family members the rest of the time.

[AmeerX]

🤔 you never married or just not married right now?

[Billlewis]

@AmeerX I was married for a while, but I've had several long term relationships which were mutually satisfying.

[AmeerX]

That's good to know I suppose

[jahaims]

No way. You can't be in love and cheat.

[Anemone978]

Depends lol
If my husband physically cheated a few times with someone, I don't think I would care as long as he didn't catch anything..
Now if it was a new partner I was absolutely in love with I would not forgive a betrayal like that..

[EmmaMary]

There would never be any forgiving...The End.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

No, Cheating in my opinion is an instant 100 percent deal breaker. It doesn't matter if its emotional or a full on physical affair. That shows zero respect for a relationship or your relationship partner.

I consider it such an issue in that if i am in the talking phase and find out they cheated before or were willing participants to another's affair, I will politely inform them we just aren't compatible and end all contact.

[aquamarine321]

If someone has cheated on you multiple times you should leave why continue getting hurt over and over again, but I understand when you love someone you’ll always forgive them for cheating until you don’t, but when that times comes it’s always good to forgive yourself and them also

[Lokiion]

Not really cheating if they told you and you know about it but if anything I would just make it an open relationship and if they don’t agree I would just leave (9/10 I would probably just leave and not try and make it an open relationships though)

[Notfrommars]

I think i phrased it wrong, I meant if they were caught cheating and then said yes it had happened multiple times but that there was no feelings for this person

[Lokiion]

Alright I would just leave then

[AmeerX]

Physical or emotional cheating? Frankly if she had sex or shared nudes then I might dump her. If it's just talking then I might not have much of an issue.
Talking doesn't automatically means cheating anyways

[Notfrommars]

Oops I meant if they physically cheated. like I’ve heard people say “I slept with X multiple times but it didn’t mean anything! I know I cheated but I don’t love them”

[AmeerX]

If a girl cheated physically I would not accept this behavior excluding other categories like hotwifing and stuff.

Because it was her will to let the other many sleep with her.

If it was just talking and being complaining then I would totally forgive her.

[AmeerX]

Sex is off bounds. I would rather she was a bisexual and slept with a girl than a man

[Anonymous]

Nope no way. Why the f would you stay with someone who continues to cheat. Also there ain't no way in hell that there isn't some feelings there if they are sleeping with the same person whom they are cheating on you with

[inhua]

only if they were truly stoic which is impossible for women because they need emotions for sex

[Anonymous]

🤣 I wouldn't forgive them the first time. I got a 1 strike you're out policy with women when it comes to fidelity. Doesn't matter if we've together for 2 days or 20 years. You cheat on me we're done.

[Anonymous]

If I was a woman I might. As a man, no because women don't cheat for the same reasons.

[Hanrej]

I'd be happy she's found someone to please her when I'm unavailable.

[Kristierose]

I just pray that she it never happens