In a long distance relationship, how far away from you are you willing to commit to?

[LemiaOfThunder]

Same Country Different County

Different country (england to finland)

Trans-Alanatic Relationship

Neither

Other

[DizzyDesii]

I’ve made international exceptions for a few men who traveled to the states on occasion. But now that i see the difficulty with citizenship and work permits, even when living within the same continent, for future use, I’ll likely stick within the states. And I would prefer they live within the southern states or be willing to move south if not

[DizzyDesii]

Thanks for mho

[HollyK21]

So much distance makes the relationship sound incredibly bleak and dead-ended. I don’t think that arrangement will work anyway without some sort of solidified end date, or if it’s for an extended length of time with no silver lining.

[OlderAndWiser]

I tried it once with someone who lives about 900 miles away. I visited her once, she never reciprocated, so that was the end of that. I had a few "LDRs" which were only 80-100 miles. I am now engaged to my girlfriend in the last LDR.

[Paris13]

I had Married a Muslim in Egypt One Time. And just Recently, Broke it Off with a Brit in The UK. LDR is no Big Deal for me. I have Done it all. lolxxoo

[Sonorous]

Tbh I'm just that type of person that would commit even if they lived on GN-z11 (which is 13.4 billion light-years away from Earth).

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I was 4500 miles away from him…

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

LDR wasn’t by choice though. We met and fell in love in real life, were together for over a year and then we had to be Long Distance.

[cosmosis181]

Seeing as how I don't associate with White&Black American females, and I'm 1st Generation American... there's no limit. I'm aiming to move to Mexico. It's not just the females... it's the culture. American society doesn't reward or encourage substance AT ALL. And the people follow suit with that. Im in a mid Atlantic state now, but when I was in Texas I went to Tamaulipas every other month to deliver goods to people in a small town there. I've never met nicer, more helpful, appreciative people. I've been talking with this female there... and when we first started talking...2 quotes from her..."I'm good on all that American fuckboy stuff ," and "I'm surprised how much you know about Mexico." She's in Reynosa. That's what matters to a Mexican female.😌No limit.

[Anemone978]

Well I only had one relationship.. and he lived 3,515 miles away since he was across the ocean lol We used to talk for hours everyday on Skype.. Watch movies, play games online it was a fun time.. Then we got married and I moved here.. which was a big mistake.. LOL

[Lliam]

I wouldn't even consider an LDR to be a relationship. I wouldn't bother.

All my girlfriends lived nearby, most in the same town and one less than 30 min away. But with that one, we wound up living together, usually at her place.

When I met my future wife, she almost rejected me for being GU (geographically undesirable) because we were about an hour away from each other.

For me to be in a relationship, I want to see her in person a LOT.

[Simslover92]

Currently in a long distance relationship where we're in the same state just different counties. That's as far as I'm willing to go because it's already rough not getting to see each other everyday or every other day but every month or every other month is when we do see each other. It's frustrating to say the least.

[Miristheiss]

I don't do long distance relationships at all. I would never commit and I'd break up the moment one of us moved away.

I might have done something to where we were in 2 different towns that were close enough we could see the other in like an hour drive.

[petitedollbabee]

Easy car-travel distance. So up to 3 hours away from each other. But only if they can drive aswell. I wouldn’t want to be the only one driving every time.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Someone who is close enough so we can go to concerts, fairs, festivals, conventions, sporting events, plays, farmers markets, the beach, out to eat, hang out at one of our places for a few etc together. I don't want to have to take a week or a few days every time we want to see each other. Someone I can see every week.

[BourbonAndBacon]

I've been in international business for so long and I have lots of clients in other countries so I think nothing of travelling around the world to meet someone

[OfMiceandMen]

None of the above. If it's a friendship then anywhere. I don't consider it a relationship unless you can hold the person on a regular basis.

[Nikki1989]

A long distance relationship is not a real relationship, no matter how much people try to sugarcoat it.

[Joshydavid25]

Only if I could travel to where they are regularly.. Otherwise I'd rather somebody more... Local..

[exitseven]

I had one with somebody who lived 1500 miles away. I would never do it again. When I broke up with her I made a 100 mile rule.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Different country like the UK for me.

[TheSpaceGnome]

For finding a wife, I'd be willing to look anywhere in the US.

[cocoblah]

Tried it and didn’t work. It’s not worth the time wasted

[Bricealan]

Same country, CA, to Ohio many times

[CaliAttorneyGuy]

I’d be willing to travel 20 minutes.

[legalboxers]

ex was from Canada, Australia, Japan..

[MysteriousDarkness]

@legalboxers
Are you saying on ex was from all those countries or you had 3 exes where each was from a different country?

[BarryLiverstone]

Same city