Boyfriend invites his female friend into his apartment sometimes, makes me uncomfortable?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend has a female friend who he sometimes invites to his apartment when they are alone together. This makes me feel uncomfortable, am I being unreasonable? Should I mention it to him?

[boggboss]

Is the issue that u don't trust him? As I dont see why u would have a boyfriend that has female friends at that point

[jahaims]

It is definitely okay to discuss but don't try to stop it. You are being insecure and untrusting based on your own projections. If you don't trust your partner then don't be in a relationship.

[Anemone978]

You should tell him.. if he has issues with it, you clearly are not for each other.. Next time make sure they don't have female friends lol

[HelpfulWoman]

mention it. but literally all you've seemed to said is that you're triggered by him having a female friend...

[DannyUk2017]

I guess it goes both ways... why don't you invite your male friend over and see his reaction. 🤷‍♂️

[EmmaMary]

I'm trying very hard to make some sense of this nonsense.

[balyai]

Ofc you should mention it. And what he's doing is sus