Social Anxiety is making me a Virgin what do I do?

[Anonymous]

I was thinking of talking to a psychiatrist to put me on XANAX or VALIUM, for Social Anxiety and General Anxiety

I heard XANAX is a Miracle worker, it makes you fearless when talking to girls and asking for their numbers

I would finally have friends and a girlfriend

[chrissykerdock]

i asked to meet you wherever you wanted and i promised to wear a minidress and you still rejected me... i think your more into guys than girls.

[PrinceWalnut]

You're offering to fuck him? Or just blow him?

[chrissykerdock]

@PrinceWalnut just blow him because i'm sick of him saying he can't get any action

[Anonymous]

It does help with that. But I don't think social anxiety is the only problem you're going to have when talking to women. A lot of people sit at home on the iPad or on the computer all day without talking to people.

So the woman might be paranoid or scared to talk to guys. It's different personalities you're going to have to deal with.

[Drumlin2001]

I'd stay away from drugs if I could. But do something, or the years will tick by, I know from. experience

[Asker]

yeah i dont want to be a virgin at 40

[Drumlin2001]

I was till 35...

[Asker]

I dont think i could handle being a virgin for that long, there is nothing wrong though losing it at 35

[Drumlin2001]

You find things to distract yourself, though I had an unhealthy relationship with alcohol and gambling for years, not recommended.

[Asker]

does alcohol help you talk to girls

[Drumlin2001]

No. Just numbs the pain.

[Drumlin2001]

Honestly, in my experience it was a far bigger hurdle in head then it really was. For me it was physical intimacy primarily. I could talk with women ok, they are just people, but whenever a situation would lean towards anything physical I would recoil. Not really great for anyone. Join some social groups and talk to people just for the sake of getting to know people not anything romantic or physical. Build up your confidence

[Asker]

I will try to get a prescription for XANAX, cause my anxiety is really bad.

[Asker]

i am too anxious to talk to girls, its like a mental block.

[Drumlin2001]

Mental blocks are difficult to break down, I know. But it can be done.
By 40 i had 2 kids and was engaged. Life can change quickly

[Asker]

that ls true, but nobody at my school initiates conversations with me. No girls try and talk with me or guys. I dont see how i will ever get a woman in my life. Im an average looking guy too.