What if you found out that you are were your partner's lack of options, last of the last choice?

[Luopio27]

I dont think this question need a back story.

[Anonymous]

I think that just means she’s not all that either as far as what she thinks of herself. Because honestly if she was all that and a bag of chips she wouldn’t be w you. She’d be w her first or second choice. So it doesn’t sound like she’s much of a catch herself.

[Starrrboy]

I'll try to not kill myself for a while 🤣🤣🤣... then move on because someone else is dying for me to show up in their life lol

[Anonymous]

I'd leave. This kind of thing is only good to completely destroy your self esteem. You need to be (and I have been here before) really desperate with an already bad self esteem to tolerate being in this situation.

[Nikki1989]

Better than being no option at all.

[thatshydork]

I’d at least think about leaving. I don’t need or want to be someone’s last choice.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'd leave her, then she would have zero options.

[Anonymous]

I would be sad about it. I don't want to be someone's last option. I want to be first choice.

[Flatmanlewis]

I think Nikki1989 nailed it.