Am I losing feelings for my boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

He was very stressed and upset over his family problems also job is shit, anyways he feels horrible now.

When he started to tell me that, how he feels, he started to cry... i was looking at him and felt 0.

I didn't feel sad , worried pity, nothing i swear it was so weird.

Just out of education i asked if he wants a hug.

He said "yes please' i hugged him but felt absolutely no feelings while hugging him.

Whats going on? Im scaring myself.

I felt like hugging a chair, its not normal is it... We been together for 2,6 years and lots of stuff happened and i never felt this way before.

[RoseySarah]

This has happened to me before. Your brain just turned off feelings after he dumped so much on you.

If it's not normally this way then it's okay and happens. Sounds like your stressed also and could not accept his feelings.

Time for him to change jobs move on so your both happy if not then it will probably ending things and he will move on any ways!

Take time for a snuggle time or just a date! Keep that spark and your feelings alive

[Asker]

Well he was acting like a asshole and i was very upset and angry
Cried a lot myself 2 days before this
I had enough of him i think
I dont know why

[RoseySarah]

There is your answer you had enough of him and then he cries like a baby of course your not feeling sympathy!

Lucky you did not break up with him being such an asshole!

Your doing good and if he is to much then it will be time too dump him!

Remind him of that he can't treat you like that! It's not fair to you!

Be an ass to someone else or his bosw

[Asker]

He said he wants to sort his head and can't make me happy now because he feels depressed but wabts to carry on , because he values me a lot and wants to come back be happy together like we used to be before this past 2,3 weeks

[RoseySarah]

Well maybe give him 2 more weeks and see how it goes if he is worth it then he will fix it!

[Asker]

Thnx