I met a guy to hang out with, and we were hanging out at the park, getting to know each other. So, I wanted to walk around, and he seemed hesitant. He said, "Oh, you want to walk around?" I responded, "Aww, we don't have to if you don't want to." And he replied, "No, if you want to walk around, we can do it." So, after that, we spent a good 4 hours talking and laughing. Then, he tried to kiss me and make moves on me, but I told him that we're not at that stage yet. After that, we left. He asked me if I got home okay, and he responds to my texts pretty fast. However, we didn't really text each other much after that. I told him I was busy with college anyway, and he works out of town. One day, he hit me up and asked me to hang out with him. I'm kind of hesitant because he tried to make moves on me last time, but the vibes were there. I told him "probably," and he said okay, but we haven't planned a date or anything. Usually, I know where he is when he's out of town. He posted on his story a picture of him in an apartment or dorm, and the decorations in the place were pink, and the mirror had stickers...
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You ask.
Seriously- that's it. Don't overthink it. Though keep in mind, some guys do lie about that if they're playing games or not completely happy with their current relationship. Or he might be pursuing you and others at the same time-
If you're cautious about it, or not comfortable outright asking him, just nonchalantly bring up a topic and mention his girlfriend or partner.
Such as, "The fair is in town next weekend. I bet your girlfriend would love to go to that!" It seems like an innocent statement, but he'll either correct you and confirm he's single... or taken.
You’re right but if he flat out lies there’s nothing I can really do about it.
The first part sounds like really he has a girl friend and hesitated!
Men are never really honest about having a girlfriend so I always assume he has one till I can find out.
From this it sounds alike he does have a girlfriend and making things with you not a relationship so he is not cheating but he wants sex that is clear!
I’m saying and I asked a couple of guys the same question and they’re telling me he doesn’t have one. But from his behavior it’s literally giving that.
They are covering for him! Lol
See it so much a guy being back then the other guys lie or cover for him just cause he is a guy and they want him being bad and getting awayw with it!
Always listen to that voice inside your head it's more right then it is wrong!
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