Do you think being emotionally unavailable means you still have trauma you’re needing to let go of?

[Toriixlovely]

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yes or you are just simply not over your previous relationship, when a relationship ends, the emotions don't normally go with it, they linger for a while and only time extinguished it, correction, time without them in your life.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I think either of those things are nonsense.

If you like a person, you'll always be emotionally available for them, and just forget about past trauma, live in the moment and look to the future.

[LexiHunnyP93]

@toriixlovely i think its a very good possibility yes :) unless you are not interested in them and they can't take no for answer :)

[black_king]

Being emotionally unavailable means there is some healing that needs to be done and of course some shadow work as well, a relationship should not be thought of until that person learns to love self first.

[AngryCarl2]

Not necessarily. Letting go of trauma doesn't suddenly make you a warmer person. People who had a bad childhood may be either closed off or overly needy.

[CallmeTheKnight]

That or you have some serious growing to do.
Either way, there has to be some form of maturity to take place

[Nifrayu]

No. Well... it could mean that I guess.

[In_Trance]

In most cases yes

[Jmmmfi4]

COULD BE

[riverrat3]

A great deal