Most women end up with the relationship they want but not with the man they would prefer and this is what leads to a lot of low-grade marital dysfunction as Chris Rock put it the number one reason why your woman's always mad is because you ain't her first choice.

Women don't know what they want, how will they know which is her first option?

absolutely, girls treat guys like shit they don’t view as a “catch”. Even if i ask a girl to hang out if her answer isn’t an enthusiastic yes i’m not interested anymore.

Very unlikely anyone one is your first choice, on both sides.

Yes as a virgin loser i would agree, you aren't what she wants but she has to settle and she will never be happy with you

It depends how far she was with her "first choice".

Probably a good idea not to get married to them if you know that somehow

I wouldn't marry someone personally if I am not their first choice.

Great video and he does an excellent job of breaking down topics just like this.

I wouldn't even date a woman if I'm not her first choice. I don't want to be anyone's second or third choice. So I agree with you 100%!

My stance is don't get married period. The laws are to broken and need to be fixed

If you are a man, do you agree, "Do not marry a woman if you are not her first choice? (Page 2)

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Women don't know what they want, how will they know which is her first option?

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absolutely, girls treat guys like shit they don’t view as a “catch”. Even if i ask a girl to hang out if her answer isn’t an enthusiastic yes i’m not interested anymore.

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Very unlikely anyone one is your first choice, on both sides.

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Yes as a virgin loser i would agree, you aren't what she wants but she has to settle and she will never be happy with you

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It depends how far she was with her "first choice".

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Probably a good idea not to get married to them if you know that somehow

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I wouldn't marry someone personally if I am not their first choice.

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Great video and he does an excellent job of breaking down topics just like this.

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I wouldn't even date a woman if I'm not her first choice. I don't want to be anyone's second or third choice. So I agree with you 100%!

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My stance is don't get married period. The laws are to broken and need to be fixed

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Only marry someone you really love, not settling for someone.

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Of course I agree with that statement

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I don't think not many people, (men and women ) have that luxury.

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I'm a woman and I would agree with that!

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Well, yes. Why should I be the runner up?

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  Runner up is very good. Nineteenth place out of twenty-five is not good.
  
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  2nd is the 1st loser
  
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Man or woman: No if not a 1st choice.

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That goes both ways

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That makes total sense to me.

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that is not a factor

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Straight men are self haters.

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I as a woman agree

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It makes sense!

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Why would you go for someone who doesn’t want you?

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first choice?

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Dont marry at all

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I agree with that too

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I don't marry even if I m her first choice...

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Makes sense.

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100% agree

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how would you know

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Disagree

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I agree!

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Hey there

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disagree

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