Is it normal to get bored in a healthy relationship if you’re only used to toxic ones?

[Anonymous]

[Kodvik]

Normal? I don't think it is... But if you're starting to feel bored on a relationship that is going well... I HIGHLY suggest sitting down with your partner and openly tell them that you need to spice things up somehow... That is for you two to figure out tho... Talk about kinks... Boundaries and work on ways to achieve what you're looking for... And keep it healthy.

[Asker]

Thank you so much for your response. I was in a long term relationship that was far from healthy but that was all I knew. Now I’m in a relationship with an amazing guy but it’s going so well to where I feel like things are becoming stagnant and I hate that I feel that way. He’s a great guy and I love what we have so it makes me feel guilty that I’m feeling this way

[Kodvik]

Don't be hard on yourself like that... It's clear that the "toxicity" have it appeal...
But yeah, definitely sit down with him... And discuss some way for you two to work on this... If you don't know at least some what gets you going on a relationship... You two can try to chat about it... The best way to keep a good relationship is a good talk... While cuddling hahaha

[Kodvik]

Really hope you two can figure this one out, together. Best of luck 😊

[exitseven]

Some people really thrive on a toxic relationship. They sort of like the drama and the uncertainty. Some even get off on the violence. They may not even notice it.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[sheikalana]

Healthy relationships are nothing like you see in the movies. Healthy sometimes can seem boring but it's sooo peaceful.

[Luckycharms12]

We all get bored up to you as much as person you are with to make it fun and exciting again

[jahaims]

Yeah, that just means you aren't emotionally healthy. People want what they know even if it is toxic and trauma inducing.

[Lokiion]

Yeah it’s normal to get bored without a toxic relationship past also

[OddBeMe]

If you liked toxicity. And maybe you did. The drama of it.

[Anonymous]

I would use the word "typical" not normal. There's nothing normal about that.

[Anonymous]

It means you're toxic so that's why you would find toxic men (or women. Whatever you're into)

[Danny_dan92]

That’s honestly horrible lmao

[LiamJHayden]

You might be accustomed to the drama.

[Iron_Man]

No, keep the fire lit

[Anonymous]

Healthy relationship is always boring

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope.