Is it wrong to ask your partner to promise to stay together forever - partner is 10 years older than me, she says no one has seen the future?

[Anonymous]

[Sodomite]

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[madhatters4]

i mean a marriage or engagement is effectively the same commitment. I don't think it's wrong to ask. if a person feels like they can't commit to that then it's probably good to know so that each person can know what the other is thinking/expecting

[DizzyDesii]

I laughed so hard. I haven't thought about “forever” type shit in at least 5 years. And i probably last seriously expected it after my first boyfriend in high school. I never even considered the growing old together factor so forever is a bit much. Yea i want longterm. However long until we can't bear to be around one another anymore

[provokeesmokee]

Not wrong per say, and also technically that's what a marriage is, but definitely can come on strong.

Here's the thing: you can ask, but she doesn't need to promise you that.

The question then becomes, are you up to building a relationship with someone who isn't willing to promise that?

[Anemone978]

Seems a bit immature.. but also it is romantic LOL
Mind you I would say it if I felt it.. whether it is true or not is unknown :P

[exitseven]

That is exactly what you are doing when you get married. I took the Till death us do part thing pretty literally.

[IslaTheWitch]

I agree. No one knows the future, so why promise something that would not be possible to keep?

[Yannae]

Wrong. You can promise to do your best, but if things don't work out and you tried everything, don't wait until the 10 years are over. Just be happy and leave.

[boggboss]

Its a stupid thing to ask or request nobody knows what will happen

[LazerBean]

Yeah that's weird, unless you're getting married.

[RedInnocent68]

Do you asked to marry her, and she said no?

[Anonymous]

Yeah, its a biit much in my opinion.

[Papabubbles]

She's never yours, it just your turn.