Do you ever feel like you ended up with the wrong person?

[Simslover92]

[exitseven]

Nope, I got married to exactly the right person.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[Simslover92]

You're welcome!

[Mansearching]

No not at all.

[Simslover92]

Thats good

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, and then we got divorced.

[IslaTheWitch]

It happens from time to time, but it's mostly related to the peak of my emotions rather than objective opinion :D

If he pisses me off beyond imagination I'm quite sure it was a bad decision :D But when I calm down this feeling disappears

[Jbear27]

Unfortunately yes. Married whom I thought was my dream girl from high school. Ended up after a few years the marriage turned toxic. No matter what I did I couldnt get us back to where you began. Took us 16 years of marriage before we finally called it quits. I don’t exactly regret it because I got two beautiful kids out of the marriage and now me and my ex are good friends. But we sucked as spouses

[Simslover92]

So sorry about the marriage but glad you got two beautiful children out of it!

[denfreyxzy]

Yes. It is a normal feeling to have once in a while. But if it is starting to bother you really bad talk to him/her. If they don't show interested in changing and you feel that makes you unhappy, then it is better to end the relationship no matter at what stage you are at, if you are unhappy it will end one way or another.

If there is nothing that other person can do to change what you dislike, and they really love you and don't want you to go, you will have to reconsider If that aspect of the other person really makes you unhappy or you just think you might be happier with someone who isn't like that (Ex Skin color, race, height, weight, etc) because If you are not 100% then you might lose a very good person and then realize that you were looking for didn't make you as happy as you taught it would.

[Simslover92]

Very true. I mean I was just asking the question. I am happy with who I am with.

[Peter_Penetrator]

I ended up with the wrong person for 18 years. No matter how often l told her l loved her, nor how many times l did things against my better judgement, for her sake, or how many times l did things for her family, at the expense of my mental health, she always made sure l lived with a great deal of dread and apprehension.

[Holsen]

I’m a cautious type and like to take relationships slowly and securely, that has shown to be of use as I had a girlfriend with whom stayed for a considerable amount of time and in the end our relationship ended badly so love is one of the only thing in wich you should never let anyone else gain ground in and you should stick to your intuition and your beliefs!

[LuminousMind]

@Holsen Hi I just wanted to say I really like your advice and I’ve seen some of your comments on GAG. I’d love to ask you for your opinion on a situation if you wouldn’t mind following me back so I can send you a dm

[Holsen]

@LuminousMind ok

[midnightmoon05]

No.

I know what I want.

I picked my ex. hubby. He is still great. We work well raising our kids.

I am with my second hubby... i fought really hard (even though no one believe that we would be together with the fights we were in). We are now together. He is also amazing.

[colaman94]

That's why I've happily remained single also. I feel like I'd always be second guessing the best pretty face that comes along next lol 😉😆

[colaman94]

I'm sure that doesn't make me sound like a bad male. Just a potentially honest, male. 🤔

[Simslover92]

Yes it certainly makes you honest. Thank you for your comment!

[TaureanBull81]

My exGF was the wrong person so I got out of the relationship. If you're having these thoughts then go with your gut instincts and get out of your relationship before it's too late.

[Simslover92]

Thanks but I'm not having those thoughts really. I think I'm with the right person. I just had a dream about another guy I was with in my past and it made me think to ask this question. I sometimes wonder what it would have been like to be with him but I know I'm with the right guy. That other guy would have probably ruined my life.

[TaureanBull81]

I'm glad to hear that you're happy 😊 and hopefully your partner will start barebacking you more often 😉

[Simslover92]

I hope so too. He's coming next weekend and I'm hoping he goes raw this time. We'll see. 😉

[TaureanBull81]

Fantastic! Enjoy your time together 😉

[Simslover92]

Thanks! We certainly will! : )

[FoxEyez]

Many times. But once you realize that, just leave them.

[Simslover92]

I'm happy to say I don't feel that way. Just was asking the question.

[Kabluie]

you find this answer over time, if you wake up next to someone for a few years it's not going to feel that way. but you can always wake up one day and feel like your life isn't what you want

[NathanDavis]

not once, no... but I have been very selective about these things

[Simslover92]

Oh ok

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes, and I left those relationships because they were not who I thought they were, and since then I learned to wait until I'm sure about her being who she says she is.

[Anonymous]

Funny it’s usually women asking this. They often feel entitled to more.

[Simslover92]

I don't feel entitled to more. I was just asking the question because I was curious to see others answers.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but how often do you see guys asking this question?

[Simslover92]

I never seen anyone ask this question tbh

[Opinion Owner]

Also look at how guys vs girls are responding to this.

Guys are much more picky about who we devote to. We might cast a wide net in the beginning given how women are more more initially picky on who they date. But we are careful about committing for a reason. . We usually have a lot further to fall when things go south in a long term relationship and especially in a marriage.

Women are more likely than men to break up because “they are not feeling it”. Not to say men don’t do this but it’s usually a huge pain in the ass for single men vs single women.

[Simslover92]

I don't disagree with you on that but I'm personally not like that. Once again I asked because I was just curious.

[Opinion Owner]

Alright. You are passively thinking about this scenario though. I believe you aren’t seriously considering this.

But still it’s like me asking “what if I lost physical attraction for my girlfriend/wife? Should I break up with her?”

People might have a hard time believing me if I claimed it was a purely hypothetical question. Doesn’t mean the issue isn’t a very legitimate one. But still I wouldn’t hypothetically wonder that out loud if I was still attracted to my girlfriend/wife.

Be careful about where your thoughts might lead. Most actions start with a passive thought that becomes more serious.

[Simslover92]

Thanks. I'll keep that in mind.

[Likes2drive]

I felt like that when I was married that it was never going to be forever, I guess I was right

[msc545]

I have felt like this in the past, and it was correct.

[Simslover92]

Oh ok.

[whistlingwh0res]

I think everyone is wrong person. We are meant to be alone.

[Simslover92]

I don't believe that. I think everyone is meant for someone.

[KC1545]

Yup. We just broke up lol

[CoolCatMar1]

I know what i want so no

[AmeerX]

Be grateful Cat. Not everyone ends up with the right person. Everyon knows what they want but not everyone gets it

[CoolCatMar1]

@AmeerX he is definitely the right person.

[CoolCatMar1]

@AmeerX he is the only guy i am so obsessed with anyway

[AmeerX]

I know what you mean. Just saying be grateful 👍

[notfoundtoday]

Now I just feel like I won’t end up with anyone.

[Luckycharms12]

In ways. In other ways no

[Simslover92]

Oh ok

[dudeinohio]

I did a couple times. Now I'm ok.

[CubaPirate]

Thankfully not

[Simslover92]

That's good!

[balyai]

Yes, and she's my ex now

[captain_voidwalker]

Nope I took ot a step further and ended up alone.

[caramelcake37]

It takes some time to say this

[Simslover92]

What do you mean?

[caramelcake37]

So you need to spend some time with that person.

[Jmmmfi4]

NO BUT I WORRY ABOUT IT

[Simslover92]

Me too.

[Anonymous]

My last relationship yes unfortunately

[Evelyn99]

Sometimes.

[Simslover92]

Oh wow. I'm sorry.

[swettannie]

not anymore

[Simslover92]

Oh ok.

[swettannie]

why are you asking that

[Simslover92]

I had a dream about a guy I was sleeping with before I got with my boyfriend and sometimes I wonder how things would have went if we had gotten together instead.

[swettannie]

oooh... is he completely different than your boyfriend?

[Simslover92]

Yes he is. Total opposite.

[swettannie]

can i know more?

[Simslover92]

He's basically a bad boy. Tall handsome musician athletic. Outgoing and charming and very sarcastic. He was a dreamboat but had his bad boy ways which is why we didn't work out. He was into being with so many other girls and not just me.

[Simslover92]

My boyfriend on the other hand is short not as outgoing, not a musician or athletic. He has his charm but not like the first guy I was with.

[Kelly6]

Never

[Simslover92]

That's great!

[eagle1951]

yeah

[Simslover92]

Sorry

[Anonymous]

😂😂 what happened?

[Simslover92]

Nothing happened. Just asking the question because I was curious if others felt that way.

[Opinion Owner]

Do you feel that way right now?

[Simslover92]

No I don't.

[Opinion Owner]

Aw nice to know ma'am..
Luckily I never felt that way even if i felt that way in future I move out quickly i don't hold garbage too long.

[Simslover92]

That's good you never felt that way and hopefully you never do.

[Opinion Owner]

Having such a caring heart is luxury in this days...
You're gold pure gold ❤️

[Simslover92]

Aww thanks. ☺️ same goes to you! ❤

[Opinion Owner]

Aw no I'm not even 1% of yours in caring n loving I'm asshole 😂. you're truly god gifted heart. When you're going to marry? 😂

[Simslover92]

Lol I'm not sure. I hope one day soon. And you're not an asshole.