Would you confront your wife or husband if you knew they cheated the first 5 months of dating?

[Riannalee]

I've been with my husband a few years now and married this year and I just read text messages that some girl was meeting up with him when we first started dating for sex until at least 4-5 months. Should I confront my husband?

[DannyUk2017]

Well... if he/she started so "early" in our relationship, i wonder how it will play out later in life? Will he/dhe do it again?, if things go sour it will go back to him/her? Now is the testing time that it will reveal the loyality/commitment to the Relationship.

[aceleon]

why would i even do with her after i saw them, what proof do i need anymore? just dump the bitch.

[sheikalana]

I wouldn't care much at this point to be honest. My husband already proved to me how dedicated he is to our relationship. I'm not going to judge him for what he did in the past. The person he is now and how he treats me is what matters the most to me.

[laraWM]

A few years? I feel sorry, I hope you are okay.

You said you're married but do you have children? It is always hard to involve children in it

[Riannalee]

No we had lost our pregnancy so no children together

[laraWM]

Oh I'm sorry
Do you think you could keep it for you without going mad? If no, tell him what happened

[Riannalee]

Not sure. I've asked him a few times over the years as I had a feeling he was sleeping with someone else when we first started together and now I confirmed it. He lied to me and that makes me wonder if it will happen again

[laraWM]

It's not really good but we can't know

[soe11]

You should be considered to confront with wisdom, and the you should self assessment too ' I might doing wrong to him or any negligible act' too.

But everyone has to right ask question or reason.

I hope it's a sufficient answer.

[Anonymous]

It is not really cheating if are you are only dating.

[LiamJHayden]

I would because the texts were saved from several years ago.