MY PARTNER WRONG?

[Anonymous]

He hasn't told his parents about our 2nd child?

[Anonymous]

It's important to communicate openly with your partner. Express your feelings and concerns about not informing his parents about the second child, and try to understand his perspective as well. Open dialogue can help address any issues and strengthen your relationship.

[Asker]

His reason was that his parents will worry about his future, it didn't make any sense to me. He is 48 years old that's a fully grown up adult. I know my instincts are not wrong, I feel if the baby was a boy things would have been different.

[Opinion Owner]

It's understandable that you may feel frustrated or confused about your partner's decision. It might be helpful to have a deeper conversation with him to understand his concerns and express yours. Clear communication can help both of you find common ground and make decisions together for the well-being of your family.

[Asker]

He doesn't have much to say. no other reasons. I actually feel some angry and hate towards him.

[Opinion Owner]

It's understandable to feel frustrated when someone isn't communicative. I can feel your emotions and feelings.

[Asker]

If he didn't tell them from the word go during pregnancy, he will never tell them. Even if he tells them now what will have changed? NOTHING..
It's time for me to think about myself and babies only.

[Opinion Owner]

It sounds like you're contemplating what's best for you and your children. Prioritizing your well-being and that of your family is important. If you feel that open communication with your partner is challenging, consider seeking support from friends, family, or a counselor to help navigate the situation and make decisions that align with your needs. Good luck.

[Asker]

It's more frustrating when he takes the firstborn in another room video calls his parents, comes back after his is done and pretends to be talking to the second born. That's so bad, does he not see he is hurting me😢

[Opinion Owner]

It's understandable that this situation is causing you emotional distress. It might be helpful to express your feelings to your partner, emphasizing the impact it has on you and the importance of honesty in your relationship. Clear communication about your emotions can create awareness and open the door for understanding and resolution.

[Asker]

Yes you're right, thanks for the time you took to respond, I totally appreciate. Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome 🇮🇳

[Anonymous]

Why wouldn't he tell them about your 2nd child if they know about the 1st?

[HelpfulWoman]

Are they abusive or anything?

[Asker]

No they are not.

[HelpfulWoman]

then feels a little dumb to not tell them?

[Asker]

Yes it is.

[Anonymous]

His parents don't need to know everything.

[jahaims]

That would depend on context.