Why don't men love kids?

[Akam93]

I understand it's all about the money and most of them are greedy. And babies are expensive and annoying but dosen't tug some feelings at you looking at your baby who looks like you.

[mobiusforniner]

Because he’s still a kid. Real men love kids. I have kids of my own and they give me purpose to keep living.

[Gent207-2]

I enjoy being a dad most of the time

[BadApple69]

What men do you know? Not the right men I guess.
I love children and in fact in 9th grade high school a project was to come up with 4 goals we wish to achieve in life. My 4 goals were have children, get married, buy a house and own my own business.
At the age of 22 I accomplished all 4 goals. But to me, the children were my #1 goal. I have had 4 children and there first week of life (all 4 of them) slept on my chest while sleeping at night. I fed them in the middle of the night and I made sure they were safe and warm. So again I think you are hanging around the wrong men.

[Levin]

Babies are kind of annoying but kids are cute enough. I'd like a little girl.

What's most annoying is women at work playing their baby squarking videos at work. Really irritating. I'm trying to meet a deadline and I can just hear these annoying squarks, and of course, none of the bitches are actually working and helping me.

Other peoples' kids are kind of annoying, too. Mostly cause they're reflective of their parents' bad habits, egotism and ignorance.

[Guanfei]

But we love kids. We just don't like having to take care of another man's kids because you thought you could "have better" and left him, and now you are looking for someone to pay for the kids expenses and yours.

[Akam93]

Nah. I'm not a baby momma with issues I would work hard to give my kids everything. And work to provide for them. I wouldn't ask for a man to pay for anything. Just like them.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Parenting is a commitment, you can’t expect every man you date to be ready for that if they haven’t made it to a child of their own already

[syncheart]

Some men love kids and some don't. Some women love kids and some don't. There are reasons for all of this. I can only speak for myself. I have problems, that get in my way. Therefor I don't want kids because I got enough issues on my plate.

[DB1973]

Children, babies are a high level of responsibility AND Many men haven't had a home life that instilled a healthy outlook for them growing up so their outlook will not be a nurturing one nor a woman who takes a child’s life seriously.

[Malwi93]

men ofc like kids because otherwise why would they deal w women? Man only needs women for family

[Malwi93]

There’s no
Other motivation even Peterson talks about it

[Twalli]

Most men who don't want kids don't want to marry either.

[aceleon]

we love kids we don't like commitments.

[Malwi93]

Why would that be

[aceleon]

@Malwi93 let me think
-most of us don't trust girls to be loyal
-we hate expectations, physical, emotional or financial doesn't matter
-we also hate responsibilities
-commiting restricts our sexuality and makes sex more of a chore than pleasure
-having to work to feed your own throat is already a drag, when you have to do it for another person too is a double drag
-commitment at this age is not a fullfiling thing anymore we almost never get the things that made us decided to commit anymore
-regular sex: being reliant on someone and only 1 is a slippery slop she may not be in the mood but to be honest our arousal doesn't care if you are in the mood or not also even if we got the sex it turns into a chore like i said before since what woman needs in sex and what mans needs are different the initial arousingness of the foreplay sessions and things gets old quickier than you might think
-having kids: not many womans wants kids anymore and even if they do that again turns into a chore
-someone to do the house works: no guy likes to wipe the floor or washing the dishes or such thing so it is no surprise we hate the whole spilitting chores thing.
-double income: it could be cool if that 2nd income and almost half of the 1st income doesn't go wasted on unnecessary things like the girl's cosmetics or the 1000th pair of shoes she will never wear.
-loyalty: is a joke right now everyday is a test of trust and who would like that constant stress in their lives?

[Malwi93]

Men as a whole hate responsibilities?

[Malwi93]

How do they hold jobs then?

[aceleon]

@Malwi93 easy. 1 word: survival.

[Astarlessnightsky]

In general men do love kids.

[Nifrayu]

Say what? I do love kids!

[Luckycharms12]

Men so like kids there own kids