What is something I can do for my boyfriend that he would love?

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I always give him spa days at home where a massage him and give him a facial and make a meal for him. What else can I do?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

When he comes home and before bed if he goes in and takes a shower. At the moment he walks out you're going to be all dolled up in lingerie and whatever you feel sexy and hot in

Lights are low. soft music playing.
Tell him today is going to be his lucky day.
Tell him you're going to teach him how you want to be f***** and f***** good and hard. Make him go lay down on the bed.
Start talking to him like you are the naughtiest slut in town.
And you're going to teach him what kind of slut you like.
Talk to him like you want to be talked to sometimes take it from him.
Get on top of him and slow motion slide your hips forward and back talking dirty telling him everything you're going to do to him as you tease with every part of your body.
Your heart your mind your soul your spirit in slow slow motion

Do not put it in do not allow him to put it in do not allow him to even touch you you do it all. But you have to do it in slow slow motion and you have to talk dirty you have to tease with your breasts your thighs everything

Grab a hold of his cock sit down on it only allowing the head to go in and then back off. Do this a few times and then tell him to drop it.

You reach them just rub it all over your wet spot talking dirty still go down on it Go halfway down on it back up slow slow motion and then get off of it do this a few times

But you know all different kind of ways to tease him I would hope so that's what you should do that is good foreplay. And after about a half an hour 45 minutes to this you can either get on him and f*** him in slow slow motion.

or get on him and write him like he's never been ridden before.
In order for this to work you have to take control and be that person you've always wanted to be

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Hmm some other things your boyfriend would probably love...

- Put together a cool care package of all his favorite snacks. Guys always love food!

- If he's into video games, maybe challenge him to a tournament and make it interesting by having the loser do whatever the winner wants. Could be fun!

- Does he collect anything like movies, sports stuff, comics etc? Surprise him with a new addition to his collection, I'm sure he'd flip.

- Put together an at-home sports night. Cook all his fav tailgate foods, maybe play Madden or 2K on the TV.

- Write him a cute love note about why you care about him and leave it somewhere he'll find it. Simple but guys don't always get stuff like that.

- Give him a gift card to his favorite takeout spot so he can treat himself.

- Offer to help him with any home projects or car repairs he's been putting off. We dudes love when someone lends a hand!

Hope these give you some ideas! Just putting in some effort will make him feel special, I'm sure whatever you do he'll love.

BasedBaeBecca · Accepted Answer

I think that's amazing that you're putting in this effort for your boyfriend and I'm sure he appreciates it a lot!
To spice things up, you could surprise him with something special like a romantic candle-lit dinner, a massage in a professional spa for some couple time, booking a hotel room for a night of fun and relaxation, or even just planning a romantic weekend getaway for the both of you. You could also try to incorporate his favorite activities into your dates and find out about his interests and hobbies to discover creative and unique ways to show your love and appreciation.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

You have to really have your ears open to things he likes, then remember them.

Like mine saw whare you can send away for a gift set of small redwood tree to plant in your yard. It came in a little crate with plad bows to make it look like a gift. He absolutely loved redwood trees.

I think they may have the same gift set at Walmart, Home Depot or Lowe's - around Christmas time. I remember him sniffing them and acting so theilled.
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caring__1 · Answer

Ask him what he values in a relationship. Asking strangers won't necessarily give you what he appreciates. Find out what you've done that he's savored, even after the moment ended. Ask him to share his fantasies. If you ask this, though, don't overreact if he says something that doesn't mesh with you. Make sure he feels safe under all circumstances. To do so, never accuse, blame, criticize, demand, rationalize, yell or tell him what he should or shouldn't do.

You'll get some strange responses here, so let them go in one ear and out the other, without taking them personally. Remember, you're already giving him what he loves... YOU!!! It's about quality, not quantity.

DaveJord · Answer

Nothing, serious there is nothing more you need to do... if you are doing that for him you are a great woman. Obviously, you are doing things, and I am sure a whole lot of other things, for him if you are doing that.

As a man it warms my heart to hear of people doing nice things like that for their loved ones... but honestly don't spoil this man. 😂🤣😂

AviatorTom · Answer

Do something for him that he wouldn't do for himself. That could be many things: Cook him his favorite dinner, take him to a concert, spend a weekend together someplace he wouldn't normally go to, buy him that thing he keeps talking about but doesn't buy.

In brief, be creative... think of what he would like... and then do it.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

Make him a tasty veggie appetizer or a salad.

MrOracle · Answer

Guys generally don't need much, but it's very nice that you are thinking of him.

Cooking and baking things he likes is always going to be well received. Maybe bake some brownies, and optionally have some vanilla ice cream and some whipped cream to make brownie sundaes - easy but also out-of-the-ordinary. Obviously if there's something you can bake that you know he really likes, you can do that instead - maybe a particular kind of pie, or his favorite cookies, or fresh banana bread or whatever he enjoys.

And another simple thing that guys enjoy is just a quiet day at home with no responsibilities. Maybe watch a movie or TV show with him on the couch with some popcorn. Just being able to spend relaxing time with you without the need to deal with work, or the car, etc. is very valuable and appreciated by many men. Often, these simple things mean a lot more than buying something expensive or going somewhere.

You know his personality and routine better than we do, so adjust accordingly.

Flatmanlewis · Answer

Time together. That’s it. It can be comfy reading time by a fireplace in PJs. It can be cooking a meal for him or together. It can be a hike. It can be seeing a movie that he would never pick because he knows it’s not your type and would bore you. It can be (seriously) as amazing as getting in his head and asking him how he feels about anything. (We men are used to women not giving a hoot about whatever it is we’re into).

Also, you can never go wrong with a nice dinner out and half way through the night inform him by whispering in his ear that you are wearing elaborate lingerie underneath and what you plan to do to him later. Believe me - you’ll have his attention.

modeunae · Answer

Something you can do is just be kind, man. Be feminine, be soft, always be willing to hear what he has to say and do just that.

Be feminine and kind to him. If you're cohabitating, when he comes home, giving him a beautiful: "Hi, honey!" or whatever it is he likes to be called goes a long way. Giving him a beautiful smile, a big hug and a lovely kiss will make him feel strongly appreciated. Do this, and you'll find your that your man is extra happy and loving towards you.

Be feminine and kind to him. Be submissive. It may sound bad because of all you've heard but trust me... it goes a long way.Trust me.

BadApple69 · Answer

Honestly you already sound perfect. For me? The best thing my girlfriend could do for me is to let me know I am loved. Sometimes that’s just saying it and other times that’s showing it… but it doesn’t have to be big things. Making a nice meal, just giving me a hug when I’m not expecting it, or going out of her way to give me a kiss. These are the things that mean the most to me.

NZGirl07 · Answer

I'd say surprise him with his favourite drink or snack, if he has a hobby maybe buy him a small related gift e. g new golf balls or a Lego set. Also planning a day of fun activities that he enjoys is a sweet gesture.

electromagnetic · Answer

Breakfast in bed. All be it this will probably work best on weekends.
I cannot cook and everyone knows that, however, it hasn't stopped me from 'cheffing it up" in the kitchen like I'm Gordan Ramsay himself. I think it' the though the counts. The little things go a long away.

Anonymous · Answer

It's wonderful that you're already taking the time to pamper your boyfriend. Consider his interests and preferences. You could plan a surprise date, create a scrapbook of your memories together, or organize a movie night with his favorite films and snacks. Personal gestures that show you know and appreciate him will be cherished.

SotiCoto · Answer

You're asking strangers who don't know you nor your boyfriend what he would love... presumably on the grounds that all men are supposed to be the same or something?
Perhaps get to know him better if you don't already. I don't know of any guy who would say no to you asking him what he likes.

Worrying · Answer

“Not all of us can do great things, but we can do small things with great love.”I love this beautiful quote from Mother Teresa.

AydenHazor · Answer

Plan an outing where you participate in some of his favorite activities. Whether that's playing or watching a story he's interested, going to a restaurant he loves it wants to try, watching a movie he's been dying to see, doing an escape room or going to a museum he'd like. Provide him with an experience doing something he loves with the woman he loves.

VanityFair888 · Answer

Buy him something he wanted for a long time.  Greet him in a sexy lingerie/cosplay/outfit and make love.  Take him somewhere to travel.

Anonymous · Answer

If he's a good man, anything you do from the heart he'll appreciate. Honestly it's not about what a woman does for a man. It's that she thinks enough of him to do something from the heart for him that guys love. Guys are USED to not being loved and just having things EXPECTED of us.

summiter · Answer

Dress is something sexy (or nothing at all) light some candles, have a nice meal and a bottle of wine waiting and then have 2 or 3 rounds of great sex afterward

Taenevachill · Answer

Ima answer dis strictly based off what i would want. But you should get him comfortable Just as quick as he got you comfortable around him. He should be so comfortable to the point that he walking butt booty naked ON GUMMY MODE!!😏im not got tell you what else that comes with, thats between you and him, but aye comfortability is. Let him kno he’s the man. And you gone stick beside em😏

Jonnywayne · Answer

You can't ask strangers what your boyfriend would like, because how would anyone know. I can only tell you what I like, but that doesn't mean your boyfriend wants it too. So you have to think on your own.

your own.

RavVid · Answer

I presume sex is on the menu during the spa days. Do you do body massages - slide your body over his? I used to get Thai massages and would have loved to have got a sexual version.

exitseven · Answer

If he really likes spa days that is a great gift. I have been hinting to my kids I would like to go on some kind of activity like white water rafting. So far no takers.

HighValue · Answer

Whatever is his favorite hobby, learn about it so he can have conversations with you about it and maybe participate in it with him too.

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing because he'll expect that all the time and not give you anything in return. Do yourself a favor and pull back and get your emotions and head in check before you get yourself seriously hurt emotionally or before the price takes advantage of your kindness and generosity

molonski2 · Answer

A candle lit dinner , soft music playing , home cooked by yourself , playful , and delightful , have his slippers ready.

m33ladEmjay · Answer

massage his whole body and hotdog at the same time.. Let him use your 3 holes.  For more info go to

Minahh · Answer

You should know what he likes. We don't know. Also make sure he's doing things for you to, even more than you do for him.

slatyb · Answer

That depends entirely on him. Don't you have any clue? Ask him about his sexual fantasies, then fulfill one.

Bricealan · Answer

Ask not, what you can do for your boyfriend, but rather ask what can your boyfriend do for you!

Avicenna · Answer

A surprise road trip

Billlewis · Answer

Have someone buy you a gift certificate to his favorite restaurant;)

dreamstar72 · Answer

A surprise whip cream birthday cake, actually you will enjoy it too. I’m sure you know where to place it.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

"The best way to a man's heart is through his stomach."

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Seems like a good thing to ask your boyfriend what he would appreciate.

strateguy632 · Answer

once in awhile you initiate foreplay and offer intimacy

Joshydavid25 · Answer

That's sweet.. You would have to ask him though.. Maybe he is fully satisfied with what you give him.. Maybe he doesn't need more..

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

I usually give my wife a facial. She also likes it when I give her a cream pie or sticky honey buns.

sheenagwapa · Answer

talj to him about a topic he likes talking or his fave subject to talk about

Anonymous · Answer

Don't laugh but I offer my boyfriend bacon bouquets. Or a good botte of wine that we'd share on the evening.

whistlingwh0res · Answer

Give him a doggy necklace and whip him with a lash

Harry_mm · Answer

Normal: watch a movie with him and play with his hair  Sexual: maybe blowjob 😅😂😂

andreasderjuengere · Answer

What else: wiggle your tail when he comes home, and lick his face?

Fireguy17 · Answer

Ask him otherwise you are just guessing and so are we.

Texaskid1 · Answer

Rock his world as if tomorrow the Earth was going to get hit by a giant asteroid.

Yannae · Answer

You can't go wrong with cooking what he likes.

Meropatrick · Answer

Buy him somthing he might like. Book a trip to somewhere that is nice.

Massageman · Answer

Give him a Book of Weekly treats for his birthday or Christmas.

Iron_Man · Answer

Take him on an all paid vacation on your dime

Anonymous · Answer

Try fucking him! He'll LOVE that!! If you don't wanna fuck him, give him a blow job or at least a hand job.

CentralCee · Answer

A good blow job will sort him out. Maybe a lovely surprised sexual experience where you are completely dominant yet he is the one getting all the pressure.

Anonymous · Answer

Close... "Massage" and "facial" are definitely involved and I guarantee he'll love it...

Anonymous · Answer

Are you wanting sexual or non-sexual suggestions?

Anonymous · Answer

Guys love a good sucking, be sure to swallow they love that too. Also if you tell him how yummy his cum is and nutritional it is for women. He'll love it.

Guido · Answer

The best thing a woman could do for me is dress in very sexy lingerie.

FenixG45 · Answer

Find out his specific interests, and do it together with him. For example, if he likes hockey, go together to a game and cheer for his team!

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

It's impossible for anyone to tell you since no one on here knows your boyfriend but you.

MaDaSs · Answer

Well. . . Getaway from the hussle of life, be with him. . . Talk to him from your heart and give him the time and love 🥰

PizzaDaddyo · Answer

Make him brownies just for him and just “because”.

Anonymous · Answer

I assume he was the one who asked you out, hit on you

Anonymous · Answer

I massage him and let him give me a facial.

Anonymous · Answer

Blowjob and swallow. Any women who does this claims their man loves it.

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