Is it necessary to be in a relationship?

[justkoala]

in my opinion being single is totally fine. I can have a blast with friends, dive into my interests, or focus on work. It's all about what makes me happy. On the other hand its so cool in a relationship :/

[jewel]

You've got someone to binge-watch your favorite shows with, someone who gets your weird jokes, and someone to be your plus-one at awkward family gatherings. It's like having a partner in crime, minus the actual crime, hopefully!

But let's be real – flying solo has its perks too. You get the whole bed to yourself, no compromising over which takeout to order, and you can blast your guilty pleasure music as loud as you want.

The thing is, society often hypes up being in a relationship like it's the end-all-be-all of life. Some people find their groove in a relationship, while others rock the single life.

ıt's all about what makes you happy and fulfilled. Whether you're single, dating, or somewhere in between, the most important relationship is the one you have with yourself. So, do what feels right for you, and don't sweat the rest.

[Anonymous]

nope totally not necessary if you don't want to! and yes, you do have way more freedom and alone time, it can be extremely healthy too. relationships are good too, but they can be quite the responsibility and making sure the other person is doing okay, constantly. you know?

[IslaTheWitch]

The great thing about our lives is that we can choose.

We can be in a relationship, single, or whatever we want.

It is not necessary to be in a relationship.

[NathanDavis]

I am definitely happy and content with either...

never felt like I HAD TO get into a relationship while single... and never felt like I HAD TO be free while in a relationship...

I've just had different times for both... and I've been more than fine with either

preferences though? much much more better when I am in a relationship, of course

[kitsachie]

Be honest with yourself and what you really want. Like actually honest. I'm "happy" being single but I know that I'm the type of person that is at their brightest when I have someone I love.

Relationships come naturally, the right place and the right time comes naturally, you just have to have the right mindset and take care of yourself

[RavVid]

My High Court has decided I shouldn't be in a relationship, with it's decisions. In many ways the High Court has proved to be right because I am far more my own man in abstaining for a while. It has done me good to focus on myself instead of somebody else.

It has clarified that I should allocate the money I earn to directly benefit myself and it is a FITH concept to allocate it someone else who is temporarily in my life.

[Fireguy17]

For me, no.

I have been single and on my own over the years by choice and I was just fine.

I'm very independent and can function just fine on my own, I have a lot of friends, I could come and go as I pleased, went on motorcycle trips all the time.

I have also been in relationships over the years and when they work I'm happy being in one.

So for me I don't find it necessary to be in one.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm not happy being single, but I'm closer to happy than I would be if I were with the wrong woman.

People rush into incompatible relationships just to avoid being alone, only to end up more miserable than they already were. Others do the opposite extreme, and swear off relationships all together.

To me, the middleground makes more sense. To have a relationship, but to only have one with someone who makes you happier than you already are.

[Joshydavid25]

"in my opinion being single is totally fine. I can have a blast with friends, dive into my interests, or focus on work. It's all about what makes me happy."

You can do all of that in a relationship.. A good one that is.. Not to mention you have somebody other than yourself to care about.. And that brings you a sense of purpose..

[Anonymous]

Absolutely, whether to be in a relationship is a personal choice. It's essential to prioritize what brings you happiness and fulfillment, whether that's through connections with friends, personal interests, or a romantic relationship. There's no one-size-fits-all answer, and it's perfectly valid to enjoy the benefits of both single and coupled life.

[SolitarySolace]

It is definitely NOT necessary to be in a relationship. I just think people don't know how to stay single and that the strongest people are those who can say no to relationships especially men who stay single and abstain from sex.

[katiesmuff]

I for one was very happy and certainly didn't lack for fun for the years I had no interest in a relationship.

[Alwayreckles93]

Let me guess you must be a catholic. No I love my kids and soending time with my spouse and my children. I would do homeschool if I could.

[serious]

Necessary?

No, absolutely not. It is a person choice and not a necessity (logically speaking)

[Anemone978]

It isn't necessary but I must admit it does get lonely..

[Simslover92]

Not at all. While it feels good to be in one, it's not the end all be all.

[Unit1]

It's not necessary. But I love girls, so it makes sense for me to be in a relationship with one of these beauties.

[LiamJHayden]

Necessary? No.

My simple chart:

Great/good relationship > being single > mediocre/bad relationship

[Minahh]

No it's not. 100% better to be alone and thriving than with being someone but feeling miserable. However a good and supportive partner is a win of course.

[Hungryghostwriter]

It is all perception no? You can be happy single and miserable in a relationship. I've been single for a while and it's been a blast but I think I want the other thing now 😕

[ProbablyClueless]

That does not seem to be necessary from what I can tell; no.

[sheikalana]

Is not necessary. You should only be in a relationship if you want to and when you’re ready.

[Nikki1989]

Some people don't have what it takes to be in a relationship. They lack the social skills.

[IslaTheWitch]

Are social skills needed to be in a relationship? I always thought it was about two people, whether we like and can be with each other or not...

[scooogy]

What I find weird is how some say that sex without a relationship is slutty and others do call it a friendship with benefits.

[Tigerress]

I think it's sometimes better not to be in a relationship