Can I get the type of guy I want based on my body type?

[chele_bell]

I am 5 ft 10 and 120-130 pounds. I am quite skinny for my height. I get compliments on my appearance frequently and some people tell me I could be a model if I wanted. However, other people make fun of me for my body type. My family recently came over and they all called me “chicken bones” and “weak” which is technically true. I am filled out in my chest pretty well and I don’t look anorexically skinny but my slenderness is still noticeable to others. I am worried because I know men tend to prefer short girls. I also prefer a man who takes a more dominant role in the relationship and I’m scared I won’t be able to attract that kind of guy with my appearance. My height can be intimidating so I try to appear feminine in other ways but I’m scared it won’t work. I am also worried I may be too skinny. Should I start working out? Is it hopeless for me? What is the ideal body type I should go for in my circumstance?

[Oliverlogan263]

Don't stress too much about "typical" body types, luv. There's definitely guys out there who would dig your tall, lean look. Different stokes for different folks and all that.

I'd say just focus on being confident in yourself. You get compliments and people say you could model, so you must look good! As long as you feel healthy, that's all that matters.

Sure some dudes might be insecure about dating a taller chick, but who cares about them? You don't need that kind of lame dude anyway. The right guy won't give a crap how tall you are.

Lifting or toning up is cool if you want to feel even more fit, but not necessary at all. As long as you like yourself, others will too. Owning your height and slenderness with pride is the hottest look.

I wouldn't worry too much about filling a "typical" role either. Lots of guys are cool with strong, independent chicks. You be you boo, and you'll find another dude who's into exactly that. Don't change for any jerk, just keep doing you!

[chele_bell]

Wow that was so kind of you! You are a very encouraging person thank you that helped a lot. 😊☺️

[Oliverlogan263]

Aww shucks luv it was nothing, just keepin it real! I'm always down to hype someone up when they're feelin down on themselves. We all struggle with that sometimes, ya know? But it makes me happy if I could help put a smile on your face.

For real though, don't waste another second doubting how smokin hot you are. Own that goddess body! Carry yourself with mad confidence cuz you absolutely deserve to feel like the bombshell that you are.

Any guy would be so lucky to call you theirs. I know I would 😉 But make sure whoever it is treats you with nothing but respect, ya dig? You bring way too much to the table to settle for anything less. Keep shining bright Queen, I know great things are coming your way!

Now go out there and work that runway walk of yours sis! The world's been waiting to see just how fierce you are 🔥 You got this on lock, I believe in you 100%! Hit me up if you ever need another pick me up, a'ight? Keep killin it 💪❤️❤️

[RHK36]

There's no average body type men want, most men aren't as choosy as women. If you want more confidence then hit the gym. Just don't ever change like that for another person, do it for yourself. Your family probably talking shit to keep you humble. If you really want to know, post your pics. You'll get simp answers, but also some truthful opinions.

[chele_bell]

I would have thought men are more choosy. Hmm I’ll have to rethink that haha 😂 thank you!

[RHK36]

Douche bag fuckboys probably care, but how tall you are ain't really at the top of our priority list of what we find attractive. As a generalization of course there will always be outliers.

[RHK36]

Men also are more willing to jump in a relationship then figure it out later whereas women tend to make sure he is the right guy. Basically men don't think shit through and women tend to overthink themselves into trouble 😬🤣

[chele_bell]

Hahahah that sounds about right 😅

[OlderAndWiser]

Why didn't you post a picture so we could see what you are talking about?

[Fireguy17]

Sure, there is someone for everyone.
Probably more than anything else it really comes down to your personality.

[chele_bell]

What are some good personality traits guys usually look for in a girl?

[Fireguy17]

Gregarious, sense of humor, not full of themselves, not narcissistic at all, kind to others and animals, not on their phone every 30 seconds, not posting selfish all day long, can actually carry on a conversation, not a drama queen.
That is what I look for, and other biggies for me are drug free, non smoker, and doesn't drink too much.
Basically a pleasant person to be with.

[chele_bell]

Wonderful thank you 🙏

[ChicoFromThe305]

I don't think you'll have a problem, you aren't over the top tall and I think you'll be able to attract the guy that you want

[chele_bell]

I appreciate it, thank you👍

[ChicoFromThe305]

💯💯

[Alex-Snow]

OIFC you can. Just enjoy being who you are and do not overthink it. Many guys like the person inside the body not just the body!

[chele_bell]

Thank you 😊 🙏

[BarryLiverstone]

People are attracted to others who appear healthy. What are some examples of a guy who takes a more dominant role in a relationship?

[chele_bell]

I would say a dominant role for a man in a relationship would mean for me: paying for dates, working to earn money for the family, and being able to fix things. I’d do my part as well, just in other areas.

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh ok. That’s how it is naturally.

[shortster]

You shouldn't have too much trouble attracting guys

[chele_bell]

You think? Haha thanks 😅

[shortster]

Yes, plenty of us prefer skinny women.

[kareka]

All of men got dark side in domination i think so u just share with ur guy ur secrets and u will enjoy

[chele_bell]

Hahaha true 😅

[barn_stormer]

date tall Asian guys. Asian guys like skinny girls.

[Anonymous]

Depends on your face, if guys like you, then you have a chance.

[ThrillSeeker01]

You sound beautiful. You should have no trouble.

[chele_bell]

Thank you so much ☺️

[ThrillSeeker01]

Anytime 🙂

[Luckycharms12]

No such thing as ideal body

[chele_bell]

You are right.

[strateguy632]

you can get

[strateguy632]

in fact you are perfect weight now. those names were just jealousy, not real

[chele_bell]

Thank you, I hope so haha

[Joker_]

yeah