My boyfriend wants to meet up with his old friends with benefits together what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend are currently visiting his home country and he asked if he wanted to meet up with his old friends with benefits for coffee. He said they are nothing and are just friends should I be ok with this it’s not like they see each other anyway but I can’t stop thinking about it.

[Anonymous]

Hell no. You think he wants to meet former men who nailed you? If this is how you feel it’s how you feel. I wouldn’t if I felt the way you do.

[Asker]

So I went with my boyfriend and ex friends with benefits to this coffee place I feel like I wasn’t included as it was just them catching up and she hardly gave me any eye contact so I found it a bit awkward tbh

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I wouldn’t have gone. If that’s how you feel that’s how you feel. Again I’m sure he wouldn’t want to meet some dude who used to bang you. in my opinion there’s always a chance of them hooking up. Their history is purely sexual based. A man will remain friends w girls he wants to bang. Why did their friends with benefits end?

[Asker]

Because they wanted different things

[Opinion Owner]

So you ok w him still being friends w her? I’m telling you as a dude, men try to befriend pretty girls because in our warped little minds we think maybe something will happen w us. I have a friend myself who I know I could call up whenever to get sex from. That’s why we’re still friends. Maybe I’m wrong about him, but most men are wired the same.

[ThrillSeeker01]

You could come along. I understand that the idea of just the two of them is pretty uncomfortable.

[Asker]

I found it a bit awkward she hardly gave me any eye contact and it was just them talking about their nerdy activities for the most part so it was hard to really make any input

[ThrillSeeker01]

He should have stayed away from her. He's with you now and most guys would realize that the whole situation would make a girlfriend uncomfortable

[Asker]

Oh well she was fat anyway he can have her lol

[ThrillSeeker01]

Haha eesh. That's a bad mental picture

[ThrillSeeker01]

Thanks for the MHO.

[sheikalana]

How disrespectful. Why would he meet his friends with benefits when he's in a relationship. That's just disrespectful to me.

[petitedollbabee]

Are you able to go with him? If it’s truly an innocent coffee hang out, then you should be able to join.

[OlderAndWiser]

The suggestion would bother me.

[jahaims]

He doesn't respect you