Dreading game in relationships?

[Anonymous]

I just found out what this shit is and I'm heated. I know my partner was fucking with me even when I didn't do anything. I don't know how I should even feel.

Hurting your partner until they "straighten up"

Would you tolerate this?

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that's super lame of your partner. Playing mind games like that is weak sauce. A real relationship is about trust and communication, not hurting each other for no good reason. I wouldn't stand for that shit at all. You're supposed to be able to feel comfortable and supported by your partner, not stressed that they're gonna mess with your head. I'd be seriously pissed finding that out. Like how are you supposed to just enjoy being together if they're always scheming behind your back, you know? I'd say you definitely need to have a serious talk with them about how that affected you and how it can't happen again if you're gonna keep dating. Make it clear you won't put up with manipulation. And if they won't stop with the games, then maybe they're not really worth your time. You don't need that drama.

[ColHathi]

Definitely not.

[ThrillSeeker01]

No, sounds horrible