How long is too long in terms of giving a new partner space?

[Anonymous]

This is a new relationship, only few weeks now. He’s experienced some family loss in the month of November twice. I am worried about his grieving process possibly affecting the relationship but I also do care and hope his mental health is fine. He had to go out of town for a funeral that was today but he and I haven’t spoke since yesterday morning. I wished him a safe flight last jn our conversation and haven’t heard from him since. I want to give him space and time but honestly if I don’t hear from him by tom I might start internalizing the issue and I don’t want to be selfish by no means. I think he should’ve have at least said thank you I made it fine or something. When we talk again, I think I should express in a nice way

[ThrillSeeker01]

In the end, you have to do what's best for you. Cool that you give him space, but you also have to think about your own feelings too. When you feel it's been long enough, I would just move on if he hasn't gotten back to you.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Thanks for the MHO.

[OlderAndWiser]

This is a new relationship, he has had two losses and you are making this about yourself. See anything wrong with this picture?

[Asker]

Yes. I did say that I didn’t want to be selfish or fully internalize the issue because he’s lost family. That’s why I wanted to ask to get other opinions to check myself and pay attention to my level of attachment

[OlderAndWiser]

I think you shouldn't say anything at all. If you are still dating 2-3 months from now, then I would pay much more attention to how he respects you.

[Asker]

Thank you! I won’t then, I’ll just relax

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[bededazzle]

hate to be unhelpful, but the answer to this is entirely up to you and there is no wrong answer