Do you think my boyfriend secretly wants to get me pregnant?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend used to make it clear that he did not want to get me pregnant. He would want to use condoms and even send me money for the Plan B and now it seems like maybe he wants to get me pregnant. He’ll say things like oh if you get accidentally pregnant or he’ll say oh I have to be really careful with you with a smile on his face. And one time we broke up and he asked how have I been, I said not not much has changed, it’s only been a month, he said you could be pregnant in a month. Or he’ll say I’m not ready for little me and you to be running around. I don't know it’s just weird

[Oliverlogan263]

Gurl that does sound super sus! Like why is he suddenly even talking about you getting preggo when before he was so careful?

Red flag city. I'd put my guard WAY up if I were you. Either he's trying to baby trap you to lock you down, or he's just not taking your feelings into account AT ALL anymore. Neither is cool.

Next time he mentions it, I'd straight up ask him what's changed his mind? Is he suddenly dying to be a daddy or something? Make sure his answer isn't just about controlling you.

And double up that birth control, sis! Don't let him try any "oh the condom slipped off" tricks either. Your body, your choice what you do with it.

Keep a close eye on his behavior - if he keeps acting shady about it, I'd seriously reconsider staying with a dude who's ignoring your consent like that. You don't need that kinda disrespect, girl!

Stay strong and trust your gut. Don't let any man try to make decisions about your reproductive health without you fully on board. You deserve way better than that!

[Wise4myage]

No, I think he is just being cautious which is really good.

[ThrillSeeker01]

I doubt it