Does my boyfriend secretly want to get me pregnant?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend says that he wants a baby with me when we are established. We each already have one child and we live together. His son lives with the mother of his child. My daughter lives with us both. We are in love. We are trying to accomplish some things in life. He wants to move to florida with me when he starts his new job there and marry me and other things like have a child. We talk about this being down the line when he is like 30. I am 20 and he is 24. We have had sex over 50 times for the past 7 months without protection. Do you think he wants a baby? Like if it happens it happens kind of attitude? He is white. I don't believe in abortions or using protection when you are with one person. I do believe in marriage though first and being finacially stable because right now we are struggling. Any how does he want to get me pregnant?

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+1 y

I think my boyfriend wants to get me pregnant. We've had sex over fifty times without condoms. He says he wants a child with me later down the line... what do you think?

[Orion1084]

If you're not using protection, then I don't think it really matters if he's trying to get you pregnant.

Neither of you are actively trying to prevent pregnancy, so it will likely happen, whether he is "trying" or not. It will also probably happen sooner rather than later like you planned.

The only way you can reasonably say he's trying to get you pregnant is if he's actively making an effort outside of the norm. In this case, your norm is unprotected sex, so I don't see any specific effort on his part.

[Anonymous]

This whole question got weird towards the end... how does him being white have to do with wanting a baby? Also not believing in protection but believing in having a financially secured house hold is contradictory belief being that you already have a child with someone else and admittedly say you're struggling. If you truly don't want to be in a situation of struggling with kids you might want to use some form of protection, its only logical.

[Asker]

Dude I didn't ask for your opinion about that Mr anonymous

[Opinion Owner]

You mentioned it for a reason so I pointed it out.. next time be more stingy with information and Anon smartasses like me won't tear into your illogical mindset... and obviously if he said he wanted a child with you and he isn't using protection.. well you can add one plus one from there right?

[Asker]

Actually you are not a smart ass at all you simply none other than an opinion owner. I honestly don't care how bad of a day you have had. Next time if you want to own up to your opinion don't post anonymously. You are not smart you think you are.

[Opinion Owner]

My opinion based on your illogical mindset has nothing to do with my day. You redirecting the subhect to personal attacks means that you see the illogical nature of your statement. Me being anon doesn't change my opinion.

[Opinion Owner]

And seeing that you put yourself anon means you see how dumb your whole logic is.

[brendaa]

Why did you randomly mention that he's cacausion? What does that have to do with anything? Anyways, he probably does want to have a baby with you. But is he apart of his sons life? If not, then he obviously is a dead beat father. If he is, then good for him & his son!

[Asker]

I was trying to see if he wanted a mixed baby or something that is why I mentioned it. Trying get you alls opinions. He is a very good father gives his son everything and picks him up on a regular basis. He loves his son unconditionally. He is also good to my daughter and loves her. Her dad is a dead beat but not him.

[brendaa]

Well, maybe. :) ! Ask him! :) Ask him if he wants one now

[Anonymous]

1. why does it matter if he is white?
2. i don't think its any secret that he wants a baby lol
3. i think he does want to get pregnant with you

[Asker]

Girl I do too and because that seems to be a big issue out south and girl I don't know if he just don't like rubbers or...

[Opinion Owner]

well in that case, if you really feel you dont want a baby at the moment, there is always female contraception. you could go on the pill, use a nuva ring, sponge, many options if you're not ready