Love doesn't judge. Agree or disagree? True Love that is?

[friendofthefallen]

[JacobJordan]

Love isn't blind despite the trope. If you make bad choices you make bad choices someone that loves you may overlook them depending on the choice. But truly loving someone requires enough honesty to leave if they are making bad choices repeatedly

[friendofthefallen]

Maybe I meant judging them on things they have no control over generally like race, disability (mental or physical), height, age, etc.

[JacobJordan]

Oh most definitely love doesn't care about that. The heart wants what the heart wants.

[HawkPerception]

I somewhat disagree. There's very few scenarios where unconditional love applies. A mother and her children is usually an example of that. However in any relationship, you have to be bringing something to the table. Whether that be significant other, friends or family. It's only after a long period of time spent with someone... years and years... that love progresses into unconditional love and your loved one will never leave you no matter what you're going through.

[friendofthefallen]

Blood is thicker than water (usually) when it comes to family they say.

And I've known couples who only knew each other a short while (like six months to a year.. just about), gotten married, and are STILL married to this day.

[CarnaGirl18]

The dynamics of my relationship is weird and it definitely causes a lot of attention. But yes my boyfriend and I’s love doesn't judge each other but definitely the word dose. So agree to disagree

[LittleMelissa9614]

I agree. Love doesn't judge and it shouldn't. When you love someone, you shouldn't be judging them because of their past or whatever. Love them for who they are now and forever.

[Flatmanlewis]

I can love somebody with all my heart and yet judge them. Hurt a child, commit a murder, cheat on me, heck - there is a lot of horrible things a person can do that they will be judged for. I may or may not still love them but I don’t believe true love is blind.


A person’s character and substance is a part of why I would love them.

[Djaay]

Love has nothing to do with judgement. People judge others on a personal bases using critical destructive criticism with a grudge and dislike involved. Followers of CHRIST are taught through scripture to (i. e.) to only judge the morality of others , not on a personal offensive notation involving hatred. True love ❤️ comes only through GODS spirit , expressed or possesed only from his spirit. True love doesn't exist with the unspiritual.

[TheSpaceGnome]

People always misinterpret that phrase.

It doesn't mean that if you love someone, you won't judge them in spite of their negatives.

It means that you aren't going to be judgmental if you love everything about someone, because there is nothing to be judgmental over, as in your eyes, they are perfect.

[NathanDavis]

a truer and better, healthier love has to judge...

it certainly has to be able to tell right from wrong...

judgment rather than prejudice... or judgmental, all with subtle differences

[elaphe]

Not at all. If your SO commits a murder, you wouldn't judge him/her?

[friendofthefallen]

Yes. But I am sure if you loved them at any point in your connection, you would stilll love them? But yeah, if that means to break up then yeah, for the safety of people involved, I agree.

[Unit1]

Seems fair to me.

If there is judgment it ain't love.

[Minahh]

I partially agree. There's a difference not judging if your the person you're dating has like a physical flaw or something or them taking drugs for example.

[jahaims]

Not judging is ignorant. That is literally the best way to interact with reality.

[friendofthefallen]

I mean maybe judging also, I meant it in a positive way. Like DESPITE their flaws or the things they truly have no control over, you'd still be with them and be committed through thick and thin. A lot of people find that hard to do because most people these days are of convenience. Fortunately for my parents and other older generations, they knew a thing or two about THEE realities of life and that life won't always be roses and candy. My parents have been committed to each other in spite of job loss, cancer, stillbirth, etc. I remember them fighting/quareling but I can guarantee you that their fights didn't last very long and eventually, they found each other's arms again. It is very sweet to witness.

[aceleon]

nope. it judges if it istrue love it won't accept your misdoings.

[Tim2nice]

True love is blind but I wouldn’t expect such a question from someone of your age.

[friendofthefallen]

Why? What do you mean? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[pickles77]

Love definitely judges. But it doesn’t judge to hurt you or put you down. It judges to protect you, help you and make you better.

[friendofthefallen]

Maybe you mean judge in a positive way like I said to the other answer that in spite of their flaws, they are still committed to that person through good and bad, thick or thin. True.

However, sometimes, someone can be critical though so hmm... and then they'd be fighting next thing you know.

[Worst]

Yes... but society certainly does

[Cute_potato01]

N guys..

[Worst]

Pedophiles

[Cute_potato01]

I agree

[Anonymous]

I agree.