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I'm usually not due to being black. But yk sometimes I get lucky.
Well... My type is a shy, kind, solemn and intelligent bookworm (if I had to state any physical features, I'd go for a slender build with medium curves, long hair and glasses, and a modest outfit, think long coats, long-sleeve turtlenecks/buttoned blouses and long skirts). I'm basically this type as well, though with a significant nerdy twist and a slight vengeful twist. I guess I could be the type of a shy, kind, solemn and intelligent bookworm with a goth twist (or more generally, an affinity to the color black abd darkness in general), but it hasn't been proven yet.
OK, about me being the same type as my type, I failed to explicitly state that as I am a man, I've got no curves, I keep my hair short to solve the curly hair issue and I usually wear shirts (long-sleeved, unless it's summer and the heat is unbearable) and loose jeans instead of long-sleeved turtlenecks, blouses and long skirts (though it was a secondary set of requirements anyway). All the other points still stand.
and*
Sadly no. These are my types and I'll never get them 😂

Bro u the best looking dude on here u gotta be able to pull some girls like these 🤣
Bruh stop the flattery 😂 Either you lying or I just suck as a person 🤣 Or both 😞
Nahh I analyze faces as a hobby no lie. I be watching mofos like this
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rPAm_KsI7U8
Well according to this AI face analyzer, for that ONE PHOTO I'm a an 8.28/10. For all my other photos I'm at most a 7. It's clearly my best photo and I took that 6 years ago LOL
To me, I think your harmony is definitely near model tier at least (that's 7/10+). But when I rate faces, I like to have a more simplified approach that creating attractive has. And it not only goes based on ratios but also by what facial characteristics women prefer more in a guy. Like what the importance of each is. For instance, eyes & jaws are extremely important. More than ears, nose, lips, etc.
Damn you're serious about that stuff. Pretty cool man. But sadly ya can't change my self esteem 🤣 Probably a large factor on top of the fact that I need to figure out an income as to why I can't get girls 😅
Seems to me like you're around more men than girls because I'm having a hard time imagining that many girls wouldn't be attracted to you 🤣 they gotta be men lowkey
Nah bro... I swear to you... barely any matches on dating apps... not really any girls that even give me hints (that I'm aware of) in person. Stop the flattery 😭
Now that is what's hard to believe 🤣 because when I look at your face from that angle in your pfp, I just see a chad. And you look the complete opposite of this:
Exactly... it's all in the angle 😉
Ngl angles & lighting are insane. Like I'm only objectively like a 6/10 max, but with the right angle & lighting I can make myself look like a chadlite.
But it still looks like you've clearly got good facial harmony & a more ideal masculine dimorphism due to your medium to lowset dark & thick eyebrows, lower third width ratio relative to middle & upper, projected chin, etc.
Yeah this guy thinks he's average 🙄
Well... I don't know I must have a shitty personality then or because I've never been good at getting girls lol
Do you?
I don't believe I do 😂 But those are just words of a random, right? And you didn't add on insta yet 😅
I did
@HawkPerception
Hmm 🧐 I gotta interact with you more to see how bad your personality is
Haha I'm always up for it 😊
Did you still want me to prove it 😐
Yeah 🥺
Okay then you gotta accept my follow so I can message lol
I did.
Most women don't care about a man's looks near as much as they care about other things. There are conventionally physically attractive men who struggle to get women to like them.
@EnglishArtsteacher Most women care about looks more these days since most women can provide for themselves more these days. Sure, as a person ages, they tend to settle more, but that doesn't mean it doesn't matter as much. Because I'm sure most women would want a Chad who has provisions, can protect, is a good father figure, etc over a regular or even bad looking guy with those same attributes.
@Sonorous Well I don't know what to say man. I'm definitely not catfishing. And I've never had girls approach me in my life telling me they found me cute other than maybe one time when I was at Canada's wonderland years ago. And now later in my life when I think people are settling, I'm still trying to figure out my financial/job situation, and I can tell you it definitely matters now. Women are completely deterred whenever I mention that to them on dating apps 😂
In the message above, I said that providing matters for everyone. Doesn't matter if someone's a Chad or sub-5. But that women would just prefer to be with a Chad who can provide vs a sub-5 who can.
But dating apps are tough these days. You said you're 5'9 before & women on there tend to be very strict with height. More strict than they probably be if they met a guy irl & hit it off.
But that is wild that you've never been hit on 🤣 I grew up with women & you seem like the type of dude they'd be yappin about while blushing
🤣 Dw I do too. Except I'm just ugly tho (from most angles)
naaah I'm just really good at angles & lighting. I actually have a bunch of asymmetry to the point where one side of my face is a point lower on the looks scale than the other. My good side is a 6/10 max & my bad side is a 5/10 max 🤣
Well yeah I am very hard on myself but 🤣 I'm still going based on more objective measurements. I've already analyzed my face & had people analyze it. If I didn't have facial hair covering everything up I'd probably be a sub-5 🤣
dude you know you're hot even a girl stopped by this chat because she's into you. Either the girls apps are put off by your bio or your tats. In real life I don't know how you carry yourself but you can be closed off or look intimidating so you make eye contact and smile girls im sure are eager to know you. you're very blessed to look as you do girls are waiting for you
Just because women can provide for themselves these days doesn't mean they don't want someone to financially match them, but they don't necessarily care about money either. Obviously, a lot of it depends on the woman.
I'm not denying that the average woman prefers a good looking man with great attributes than an ugly man with great attributes. I was just saying that looks are important to a MAJORITY of women.
@EnglishArtsteacher You do make good points. But I guess I usually refer to younger women when I talk about these things. I think that the age range matters a lot as well. For instance, women around my age will care less about a mans money than a women is older. And the older woman might sacrifice being with a good looking man for being with someone who has money, status, etc.
@HawkPerception @Sonorous Guys giving each other compliments on looks.. You don't see that everyday.. 😂.. But Sonorous you work out and probably have an athletic body, and your face is pretty decent from what we've seen of it.. You should be good man.. Hawk, maybe that's just a good picture, cause you're a pretty good looking guy.. But you mentioned a financial situation.. Which, I can relate to all the way..
@Joshydavid25 Just a brotherhood here. No homo activities going on here 😂
😂😂😂.. Aw yeah I'm sure nobody here is for the meat..
Yeah I don't think I'm gay today
I'll tell you guys one thing and I hope I don't sound like I'm Bragging, but I've gotten a lot of compliments from women.. Doesn't mean anything at the end of the day.. I'm still out here single.. 😂
@hawkperception 🤣jk but tbh I do got some mma fighter lookin cheekbones 🤣 if only I had an extremely defined brow bone tho 🧎♂️
@joshydavid25 Yeah you've got great structure to your face & enough harmony to easily be above average. But are you single by choice though? Because I tend to be like that. I'm not into the whole dating & marriage thing sadly. I just like cheeks.
@Joshydavid25 I'll be honest. I think that women have all the power in dating nowadays. Social media's fueled all their egos, but also... men don't see their place in society as easily. We used to be the hunters and protectors. Women used to be gatherers and nurturers. Nowadays there's more women graduating from university and college and than men. Men are much more physical by nature and get more easily distracted in school, especially early on. Due to these circumstances, in this technological era where people make money easily from the comfort of their home being an accountant or engineer and even doctor and usually make more than physical jobs, women can easily provide for themselves. This leaves men with a lack of purpose and direction because they don't see their role as the provider as much anymore.
Ooooooooooooo 🔥 well said
just earned yourself a re-follow! (I only unfollowed u cause I though u died or something)
Nah I remembered you as the cool hot guy!
Yeah I don't quite know what it takes for me to follow people 🤔 just a feeling I get
I'd say that pretty much half of them are dispensable though if their questions don't seem to be one's I like to answer anymore. But the other half are staying until I think they're like dead or something. And you're on the latter half for some reason. It's like a feeling I get. Hard to put to words.
@Sonorous I usually only taper off of GaG when I don't feel as lonely and my social life peaks a bit. I was I a relationship recently for a year where I felt voicing my opinions on stuff just wasn't doing as much because I had a girlfriend that made me feel validated in every aspect and I was able to express all my opinions on stuff to her. But here I am again... just trying to pass the time and feel some validation from voicing my opinions 😂 So I'll never really leave this app entirely. It's something I always come back to.
Tbh I can relate to that somewhat. I'm usually not on here much when I have a greater social life or even if I'm busy doing other things. And yeah I'll probably never leave this site. There have been many times where I wanna deactivate my account. Maybe on days where I'm feeling emotional or something. 🤣 But I like to remind myself that the feeling might pass so I just logout until I'm ready to log back in. Because this place really does help me cope.
@Sonorous Thanks man, no homo but the comment made me smile.. 😂😂.. Yeah it sort of is a choice.. Only cause I'm not financially stable atm..
@HawkPerception Most definitely.. 💯 percent agree.. People say that men have power over relationships.. Maybe in the past, but now women got power over sex and relationships it seems..
@Joshydavid25 No problem! I can't help but point out people's positives now since I can analyze faces better. 🤣 Hope your money situation gets better. I feel you on that. I've heard many people say it's harder to make enough money these days. Sucks because I don't mind hard work but I prefer when I'm well compensated enough to not have to constantly stress about other things as I'm also tryna work hard.
@hawkperception Tbh yeah probably that & yo have a dope as username 🤣 maybe the gamer part of me that's still in there is like "oh yeah I want him on my friends list, that shit looks badass."
Your username sounds like something I could throw at someone when I feel like I'm losing in a debate.
The other person: have you navigated the intricacies of non-abelian gauge theories in the presence of topological defects within the framework of lattice QCD simulations?
Me: man ima be real iono wtf that is but maybe this mofo does
@Sonorous Lmaooo nah man sounded like a bunch of jargon to me, but ya know what I think both you and I have in common. If we don't know something, you better know we're gonna research the shit out of it and come up with a response for that.
Fast forward to 2:05 in this lol:
www.youtube.com/watch
Tbh though 🤣 but only if my ego is involved. I can be so determined that I will be the one to continue doing something when others would have quit. Doesn't even have to be a great risk/reward ratio. I'll just be in competition with myself for however long I need to.
And that is a great movie. 🧎♂️ Man when that opening theme plays, I just feel like a kid again.
@Joshydavid25 you and me both bro... I've been focusing on digital marketing, web design & development, and UX design for a minute now. Gonna start freelancing soon
@HawkPerception OH damn that's what's up!.. You've really been on it.. I gotta step my game back up. I've been on and off.. I'm focusing on Web Development. But I might do Tech support just get my foot in and then get back to Web Development.
Honestly props to y'all for getting money in smart ways like that!
@Joshydavid25 nah man... I've been stretching myself out thin. You probably know more than me in web development. I get so distracted every time I see some new information or something new to use that's better for each scenario each year and it just causes me to procrastinate. I guess everyone has their own path and there's no one way to get shit done in life.
Aw yeah, I feel that.. I also get distracted.. Well, when I was tutorials on YouTube, I loved it and was on it all the time.. But, then I always felt like I couldn't actually build a Website myself.. Then I started with Odin Project and been procrastinating as well.. It definitely is a lot to learn and not enough time.
Was doing tutorials***..
@Joshydavid25 There's so many ways to make websites and optimize it to your taste it can be daunting
Yes, most definitely, I'm really into the creativity of it.. But hey I choose this path, and now I gotta walk down it.
@Joshydavid25 again man... you and me both.
Hahaha.. Most definitely my guy.. Time for us to step it back up.
No. Hence why I'm still single 😂
I'm into guys that are fit, like to workout, eat, sleep, homebodies/introverted, and geeky- especially video games.
Yeah the feeling isn't mutual- they just see me as a friend or buddy they can discuss their relationship problems with so 🤷♀️
I don't bother anymore.
That sounds like me minus the video games 🤣
Aww, you're not a gamer? Boo, lol
It's very rare finding guys that like to exercise and game. Probably why I'm still single... oh well 🤷♀️
But I am the type that will play a game if someone I know likes it 🤣 Just maybe not for too long unless it's an informative type of game
@Cynicaldreamer Probably because those are generally contradictory hobbies. Guys who are gamers are usually lazy and unfit. Guys who work out (or at least fit) usually don't sit around
Oops. That sent before I finished typing.
... long enough to get into and enjoy gaming.
I don't know.. do most guys even have a type? 💀
Damn I forgot dudes be just choosing whatever they can get 💀
Why do men
men
my type is the one on the left
right*
oh thank God 😌 I don't have to pretend anymore 🧎♂️ you get it
damn he been through it. thought that was King Viserys for a sec 🤣
and he was a beautiful king
worthy of
worthy of all goodness & kindness that the world can have
I think Mr. Soapy's a bit out of his league
That's a picture of me
I think we're both doms so it wouldn't work
HE SAID HE WOULD CLAP MY CHEEKS
Damn I forgot again dudes be just choosing whatever they can get 💀
nahh u women have it easy
it's okay u can say it now
It's okay, I'm black
plus it's signed by a literal former president of the U. S.
bro you're free to say it. Everything's gonna be fine
oh come onnnnn
drake says it & he's not even black
see
don't judge me
good thing I'm photogenic
https://ibb.co/LCHzmWD
but nah I'm just kidding I don't do that anymore
Look I'm a big fan of not knocking something until you try it. Now I have great respect for the females & no females who bust it down sufficiently
non females*
I only did it MAX like 50 times
I was alone all those times but nah not today. I'm like at least a year clean
👀 you know it's no nut November right not no nut the whole year
Wait are we talking about two different things rn 🤣
not this thing
u testin my empathy reserves
but life has a way of hardening ya
nahh you don't want this life
feelings
You may offer up a simp
did you just say no
🤣🤣 do you really get nightmares that easily
oh nonononono
@Worst a a ah I wouldn't do that if I were you, sir
@lisia I was talking theoreticals
istg
alright
124 messages back and forth. I was wondering what kinda of conversation went down here and I'm sad to say I actually opened most of the memes in this thread. Y'all need a room. A meme room.
@HawkPerception lmao sorry for the disappointment
Males in your age group are just desperate horn-dogs lol.
@EnglishArtsteacher you look like a child predator
@Worst How does one "look" like a child predator?
@EnglishArtsteacher
no you, you guys are the real heroes
my abs have abs
Oh it's okay. It's a lot to take in. Yk. *casual sigh* Being a god and all. *scratches back of head while flexing bicep*
*accidentally tears bicep because of own strength*
I'm fine
*starts hard mewing from the pain*
🤣🤣🤣
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Yes.
I have been approached by men who are my type very often.
But I am now at that stage, when I feel like looks matter less. I dates my fair share of very hot guys.
How is it connected to you being black? 😯
Oh it's just that I tend to be into girls who want guys of their own race or maybe just lighter guys in general 🤣
I am surprised to hear that, I thought interracial relationships are pretty common over there.
Don’t let it discourage you, I never knew I could be into Asians, until I met the one who I fell for.
So, types mean nothing.
Oh I'm not seeking a relationship right now 🤣 I'm not sure that I even into that kinda stuff. But I am still attracted to women. 👌
Hot guys date hot girls. What else is knew?
@Tomisworthless 🤣 That's how it tends to be but there are exceptions.
I think my chances of dating a guy with an attractive personality are higher than my chances of dating a guy with an attractive body and face cause any time I go on vacation I see hundreds of wives that look way better than me. Beautiful women are as common as clay but beautiful men are less common so there is high demand and low supply.
I don’t ask about such things. Probably some of the time, yes.
No, because as a straight man, most women don't prefer me (which is true for most men), BUT, when I am a woman's type, that woman is usually my type.
I'm 6'2, and big, with a large frame, and I also a background in education, so I prefer women with that background. I also prefer tall, and curvy women. Whenever women are interested in me, they usually work in education, and/or are tall, or often curvy. Many tall women tell me they like feeling small, and I'm so big, they feel tiny next to me.
My first boyfriend liked thin, tall blondes when I was more curvy and a short redhead. I still don't know how it worked, but it did :D
In general, I think all men in my life were into blondes, so how it's possible we were together is a huge mystery for me, lol... can any man here explain it to me?
i usually like redheads more than blondes if i had to choose 🤷♂️ i suppose it depends on the girl tho
How would I know that? You would have to ask them as I can't speak for them as to whether I'm their type, and I certainly don't ask them.
So far yes, my type is a rare find and I was for her to. But I think a big part on why that question is a yes is because my type is basically someone with a similar personality to my own and I find a decent range of looks attractive. So if we match on that level I desire then that match is pretty much mutual since I strive to be what I love.
Never. I'm the type they never even considered. They all had completely different types from me, but once they got with me they said I was unexpected but perfect.
For example, one was into hispanic and black women. The other was into tiny, thin Asian and portuguese women.
Yes, in terms of their emotional makeup, emotionally understanding each other is the most important thing for me; it serves as the basis. I consider myself lucky to have attracted men who share these ideals with me because appearances are not the most important factor. I cannot express how much I value that emotional connection—without it, the relationship doesn't even progress; it's simply insubstantial.
if we're talking about looks and appearance... a couple of girls have had a bit of a preference for certain types that it was not I...
but that didn't matter to them... and they certainly had no trouble at all making me theirs, lol
Nope..
Never😂
I want an actual real man.. most are wanna be's. But I never let them touch me so its fine:)
How do u distinguish the wannabes from the alreadybes🤣
They only want sex... they pretend to want something with you and move extremely fast but just wanna talk about sex/stuff like that. Don't actually care for you at all.. and I'm no 304🤫
Wait so a real man wants to fuck less women? 🤣 wouldn't that mean he's less masculine since his testosterone levels are probably low?
No I mean real men have morals. Just like real women have morals. Having self discapline is a mature trait:)
I'm kidding with you 🤣 I agree. There's a better way of going about things. I'd want the same if I were a girl
Lol my bad for not telling😅 good👍
nah ur good 🤣👌
I believe so yes. If by type we're talking favorite kinds of girls? I'm into the blonde and wavy haired, outgoing and confident type. They most often seem interested. I also have a thing for redheads, and the cool thing is I've yet to meet a redhead girl (and yes I have actually met very many) who didn't at the very least enjoy me as a person, and most of the times be sexually attracted. I don't know why but I sure do enjoy it. My first ever romantic interest was ginger.
Kinda but I like the opposite attracts type, also, cave be very interesting and challenging long as both of you are open minded and not too head strong, then that's a disaster to avoid
I try to stay away from archetypes never veering too much in one direction.
This helps me be everyone's type (or at least most people)
So yes I'm my types type
well i like white skinned black haired womans with dark eyes and i am a white skinned guy with black hair and eyes.
i never had a type until meeting and dating my boyfriend. he's been my type since forever atp but he says I'm exactly his type so I guess so!!
I used to date mostly athletic girls. I have been a gym rat all my life so it sort of works.
Yes, but it's easy when you both like the same things. It's just so easy to get to know her when you both love spending time doing the same thing.
Well I'm a straight 5ft woman I can't imagine so no
I don't really have a specific type... All she has to do is be fine and... Nerdy.. Yeah, I've attracted them..
Mostly, but I'm also new to dating and learning what I like.
Don't think I know what my " type " actually is.
my boyfriend was not my type when he was "put" on my radar, but he is now
I don't have a type so i'm always chilling. what's the point in limiting yourself to one type of fish when there r so many other cool ones in the sea?
Sometimes but usually no. It seems to never work out between us.
No. I still have some weight to lose before that happens. I've had a good bit of success in spite of that fact, but I know I need to slim down.
I have two types. My ex and my current boyfriend. The first one is baby faced, sharp jawline guy with cute smile and slim figure, the other is curly, dark hair, deep brown eyes and stronger figure. Guess I am lucky
Yes. But speaking fluent Spanish helps a lot!
I've never really had an issue not being with someone I was interested in.
I don't even know what my types type is, i have a hard time picking up interest so im clueless bro
It seems that way to me. Most of my relationships start with something like "you're completely my type".
My type is non-obese single adult female, so well over half have no interest in me.
I'd say "no." My type is much more vixen-ish. Like a super sexual hottie. I've always been more of a nerd, so not usually what that kind of girl is interested in.
On one hand yes, because i'm such a freak, but on the other hand, no, because im not as hot as they would want me to be. i do well with the average looking freaky type, haha
I like intelligent guys and yes they like me.
@sonorous and @joshydavid25
@HawkPerception has a horrible personality lol he's such a negative nacy.
He just blocked me. No wonder he's single. He's so negative.
🤣 Sometimes different personalities don't always mesh so well. Doesn't mean it's innately horrible. Just not for you it seems.
Nope. He kept being negative for everything. He's draining. A negative Nancy.
Daaammn.. 😂😂😂..
@Joshydavid25 Yeah he's a loser. And another thing, he send nudes cos he's a desperate loser.
Oof that's too bad.. Seems like a cool guy.. Why'd he block you?
@Joshydavid25 he couldn't handle me having different opinions I guess? He said it was his boyfriend yesterday. I asked him why didn't he say anything. He said as u age birthday don't matter. I told him happy bday and said can't wait till I turn 30. He said he had grey hairs. I said I had a few and pluck em out and was gonna buy a wig on Temu. Then he started getting bitchy about why not dye ur hair. I said it damages ur hair. And his like but ur gonna wear a wig anyway. And I said I want to change my hair color for a while without damaging it. Then he said yeah u do u but if a guy sees u take off ur wig it ain't the most attractive.
Then I said why are u bringing guys in to this and he blocked me
Lmao 🤣
*birthday
He seems like a cool guy cos you're not seeing him from a girls perspective. Now I know why he's single.
No, I understand.. Lol..
@Joshydavid25 yeah he's weird. And he said he has low self esteem just cos he doesn't get women. That's a major turn off 🙄
Yeah, I guess that would happen if a man doesn't get women.. The nudes thing did trip me out though.. LOL..
@Joshydavid25 Yeah that's why I only like actual attractive guys. Average/ugly guys are always desperate just cos they don't get women. Which is a turn off even more.
I don't know if it depends on Attractiveness per say.. Plenty of attractive guys that could he down bad.. As you can see you thought Hawk was attractive and that didn't turn out well.. LOL..
Be**..
@Joshydavid25 nope he's not attractive. That's a good pic of him. But I added him Instagram and saw his other pictures and he sent a video. He's not attractive. Lol
This is why I stay with attractive guys. They have less issues lmao.
Oof, so I guess that was the case then.. Just a really good picture.. LOL..
It's all about confidence.. Plenty of average guys who are confident.. Then again you probably won't see them much online.. And Plenty of attractive guys who aren't confident..
When guys realize that type = who ever builds the most attraction, they will start doing ok.
Looks wise yeah.. but I often attract girls with totally different personalities!..
I reckon so I met a girl on the Internet a long time ago.
Usually not since whoever I like, doesn’t usually like me
Yes, a lot of the guys I've found attractive have been attracted to me too. Of course, I've been rejected too though.
Yeah I totally get hit on in Red Dead Online. It’s actually quite annoying.
What does being black have to do with it? I'm black. My type is anyone I please.
I’ve pulled some really really pretty women
I cannot get my type😭
No, that rarely happens.
For now, that seems to be the case :)
am single so obviously not.
Al-hamdulillah, Yesss 💞
Seriously doubt that, lol
no, I never have been sure I the one
I’m mid but yes I am
I have no type
I dunno. I rarely see guys who are my exact type
I better be
🤣 or what
Ummmmmm nahhhhh u giving viltrumite energy
I don't know who that is but he looks like a nice friendly gentleman
On your type?
that there was confirmation enough
*dispatch we got ourselves a 10-32, gonna need backup*
I say yes.
Yes i am
What?
exactly
Not at all.
Not always
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