Are you your types’ type?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

:)

I kind of am.

[Rosexøxø]

He had a variety of ladies before. Not player like- he always dated them for long periods, and all. He just didn’t have a preference or any qualifications. He wasn’t too judgmental or closed off, I wanna say. 🤔

What’s better though, is he does say all the time, I’m his type. I actually mentioned it to him in the beginning, saying like:

“Woa, am I not your type? Are you playing me?”

because I had seen pictures of his old instagram follows and his exes and I looked nothing like them 😆

And to be fair, they were all different as well.

Nor did I look like or have any similar traits to his mother. (Those science facts yk).

He said I was the perfect woman he had ever seen. To also help with it, he ended up recalling and sharing a cartoon he used to watch, with a super hero lady (it was like an anime) and he liked her lmao

So adorable. That was probably his type, like his first crush ever, but anyways he said I looked like her or reminded him of her. He always said I was the woman he always dreamed about. It’s crazy. It always seems too good to be true but I wrestle that cynicism aside and love him wholeheartedly. I never found someone that appreciated me as much as he does and I don't know it seems unworldly.

[Rosexøxø]

Yes, yes I’m his type, we made it! 😆 *shakes fists in the air triumphantly*

[IslaTheWitch]

no idea, but we created long-term relationships, so I assume so :D

I never was interested in types... there are men nice to look at and men nice to be with. The first category is mainly celebrities; the another are men I meet every day. They are also attractive, but more importantly, they also have interesting personality traits.

[Jennz6]

@islathewitch I am so jealous of you because you seem to get the MHO every day, but you are very intelligent

[IslaTheWitch]

@Jennz6 thank you :) if I could transfer it to you, I would do it immediately...

[Jennz6]

@islathewitch you’re too sweet 💕💯

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Not at all! 😅 My wife exclusively dated men much older than her before me, and she had a thing for bald men. I'm the youngest she ever dated (same age, only months apart).

She also wasn't what I conceived to be anywhere close to my type. I thought she was a bit too snobby and fancy for my tastes, showing up at a beer and potato chips type of picnic with fancy wine and cheese in a dress.

I think after our initially bad first impressions of each other though and despite being so different from each other's type, we started to quickly and deeply connect.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

She turned out not to be snobby in the slightest and actually the polar opposite. She was one of the least judgmental and open-minded people I ever met, never looking down at anyone.

That was just a silly prejudice I had growing up in a working class environment. I thought anyone into drinking things like fancy wine and going to operas (my wife loves operas) is probably a total snob looking down at the rest of us.

She ended up helping me to develop some sense of refined tastes and culture while I think I might have made her a bit cruder. Now she laughs so much bigger and louder than when she started and enjoys beer and pizza. 😅

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

* [...] least judgmental and [most] open-minded [...]

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Haha, sounds like a wonderful match!

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I actually think I sometimes unleashed a little monster inside her since I thought I was the rude and crude one between us but she laughs aggressively in people's faces now like, "WAAHAHAHAHAHAHA!" It's so loud that everyone in the room can hear. Then I'm thinking, "Honey, that's kind of aggressive and maybe rude? Am I like that?" She used to be one of those who'd cover her face when she laughed. Oh well, we both rubbed off on each other to some degree for better or worse. 😂

[Rosexøxø]

This was helpful. It made me realize our preferences can sometimes cloud our judgement but more importantly

It can stop the possibility of a good relationship/ allowing good chemistry to happen.

Like two people could bond and think similarly or have similar goals or so ( i forgot the third one). The ability to get along and be good friends, but it’d never happen or reach that point if they allow their preferences to get in the way. It’s because of preferences we may assume other people are deterrents and unlikable but actually talking to them and hearing them out could show otherwise. I don't know how to explain it better but you see this a lot in those movies where they say stuff like “I was wrong about you.”

I don't know it’s such a nice concept. I’m glad you both learned to cross those barriers and find the finer things in life. Such a great share 💯

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@Rosexøxø Cheers! One of the things we had very strongly in common was communication style. Like my way can come across self-absorbed a bit (and it probably is to some degree) but I like a "sharing" style of communication. I share something deep about myself and then I often wait (don't even ask a question) and hope the other person does the same, and we just take turns this way sharing deep things about each other. The goal is to maximize empathy and mutual understanding.

She naturally speaks in this way more than any other woman I met where we just take turns sharing back and forth with minimal need to prompt each other with questions. So we soon found ourselves at the edges of our friends' parties, like the balcony of a friend's home, just addicted to talking to each other this way all night long until our friends would shout, "Hey, you two are missing the party!" Then we'd rejoin but find ourselves back again each time we hung out this way.

Also while our interests seem radically different, they have common roots. For example, she's into ballet. I'm into skateboarding. Both are kind of performative arts/sports. She was into Judo, I was into kickboxing (both martial arts). She was into opera, I was into folk/historical music and opera is still a type of historical music even though it wasn't a period of history I ever took much interest in before I met her.

Things like that. There were enough roots underlying our common interests that, despite looking radically different from each other at first glance, we actually had the potential to become deeply interested in each other's interests and assimilate them as our own.

[Rosexøxø]

Okay please I’m crying lol please make a movie and a memoir for you two

I- this is beautiful. If only more people in the world could find special things such as this. I hope you guys will just find that time to love each other.

It seems that’s the only issue- not enough time! But with the way you sound and describe her I’m sure you both will make time always.

You guys have my truest admiration and best wishes for long life success in each aspect of your lives and investments in your families and friends.

Cheers! 😭 I’m gonna drop snot in my drink lmao! Someone get the Kleenex and pass it around! 😆

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@Rosexøxø I'm the luckiest guy as I see it and cheers! 🍻 [non-alcoholic beer now for me].

[pathfinder69420]

Sounds like you're not her first choice and she settled for you. I'd stay vigilant if I were you.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

So listen to him… I am sure your wife loves you.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@pathfinder69420 There's no need for it. If you could meet her, I think you'd discover quickly that she's governed above all else by moral integrity and virtue. She's like a Zen Buddhist monk that way and deeply devoted.

As one of many examples, before the pandemic, I used to go on overseas business trips 5 times a year (1-2 weeks in duration) all the time for my work. It's about a 2-hour trip by train to Narita airport from where we live.

Since we started dating, and without asking her (even telling her she doesn't have to do it), she has shown up at the Narita airport every single time I arrive home. That was over the course of over 10 years, so over 50 times she did this without missing a single time. She even canceled plans with her friends and family t meet me at the airport, always showing up every time after I come home with a giant smile on her face as I'm jet-lagged and tired from the trip and I always get cheered up that way.

Also while she initially preferred older men, I think I changed her mind enormously. I might have impressed her with my youthful vigor. 😂 Also while I am younger and came from a working class background, I did teach CompSci 101&102 for a good while in uni. The main types of men she liked most were professors. She's somewhat sapiosexual in this way. I come off very crude in person but I think she realized I'm reasonably educated as well after getting to know me.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I meant to say “Don’t listen to him.”

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Accidentally wrote “so”

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Cheers! 🤝 It's cool. I do have a rather unbelievably amazing wife so I can understand why some people might be suspicious.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yes, he’s just jealous.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I could understand just generally speaking without knowing anything about her the advice to be cautious. Between the two of us though, I was the less mature one starting out with a love of drinking and partying. She's actually the one who helped me to mature and grow up a bit and not by demand, but by example. She's the kind of woman that naturally inspires a man to become better.

[itsclearlynicholas]

I'm my type and the type of chick in her 20s I'd like to date is, facially, sort of like a chick who looks like semi-famous people, like it's hard to describe what in my head I know I like, big dark brown to brown eyes, pale skin, slim and big tits, petite, and maybe something like the 40skg range and no taller than 5feet. 😋👀 Again it's hard to describe since there's no one in particular as I've just based it off a combo of chicks on TV or chicks I've seen over time like in shows, movies, think a combo of all 😁😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

And aged 23-29 (I'm 29) lol 😆

[itsclearlynicholas]

P. S. I don't have brown eyes, mine are dark 🌑 dark blue-ish, and I'm fairly pale, yet my hair is dark brown, where as I like brown to medium brown hair on a chick 🟤🤎

[itsclearlynicholas]

Former blonde/blonde so I dislike how my hair looks poor man's black 🖤 oh well, lol 😆 anyways

[itsclearlynicholas]

Yet I love my spiky hair and style, don't get me wrong lol 💜❤️

[itsclearlynicholas]

Chicks my type type has sometimes looked my way or talked to me in a flirt way. 😅👀 Memories 🙂

[sawno]

Considering I had my perfect match in the past I can say yes with certainty. But for me that's partially cheating since I am attracted to someone who has a very similar personality as I do. I seek a true equal and strive to have the qualities I love in others. So naturally if I strive to have what I value my equal is doing the same and we end up aligning really deeply.

[NathanDavis]

I don't have a type... they didn't have a type

but... I guess we were our type since we were that type, those without a type...

type...

[Flatmanlewis]

For the most part, yes. I like the hourglass-curvy, petite, Latina and I’ve found no shortage of them who like tall gringos. (It seems like @Hispanic-Cool-Guy and I have similar tastes!) From my early 20s onward that is almost all I dated. That’s also what I married and, since I’m what she chose also, in essence, yes. I suppose I am my types’ type.

[Kaneki05]

Do goth girls like a geeky loyal smart guy who's motivated to write mostly thrillers? If the answer is yes, then yes.

[itsclearlynicholas]

As long as no glasses no contacts, big eyes is hot, as long as it's not because of vision issues lol 😞😆 otherwise there ruins the appeal aye? I'm not a goth fan personally, too dark. I'm more upbeat Austin Powers vibes, rather than Danny Darko vibes cringe 😬

[fonduegirl]

It's quite appetizing

[Al_Musafir]

Thankfully, yes.

👉👈

[Cody2004]

I don't really think that's for me to say I understand the question but it feels too weird to answer but hey here's my opinion on it lol.


😶😶😶😶 I have no fucking idea lol

[Grond21]

You have a guy? Or in general?

Yes, my girlfriend prayed for someone with some of my features

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

In general. I am single by choice for now.

[Grond21]

Ahh, gotcha. And do you have and the inkling that you are the type of your type beyond your ex fiance?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yes, I often get approached by them. I am talking about physical type.

[Grond21]

But don't you often get approached by men in general?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I do. But I am happier when I get approached by someone who’s my type.

[Grond21]

Of course, who would've be? But it doesn't mean you are their type specifically, it just means you are a young attractive woman

[andreasderjuengere]

My "type" is very rare.
There, and here.
So the attention I get often is... undesired.
But from the overall 'results' I have no reason to complain.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Not really as one can see

But somehow she still likes me

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Latinas that looks like these.

[NYCQuestions1976]

Well I'm funny, have a career, and can carry a conversation, so I'm sure that's someone's type.

[Biancam13]

I think so. My boyfriend is my type and I am clearly his type. In the past, men I've liked the look of have usually liked me back physically, even if our personalities didn't mesh so we didn't date.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Not based on my exes lol 😝 otherwise I’d be married by now

[LiamJHayden]

My type is non-obese human females, so hopefully at least one can tolerate me long term.

[normalice]

My type is also someone who understands the concept of compatibility so we would be each other's type by default.

[bobalife]

Hmm I hope so? I’ve talked, went on dates, and been with my type (s) on physically/personality.

[PeachyPie93]

Depends on the guy but most of the time no lol.

[Jellyfish120]

Well, my type likes to play. So I guess I just have to find a new type

[exitseven]

Yes, I have been a gym rat all my life and I mostly dated girls who were into fitness and sports.

[AaronKrieger]

In appearance sure, but I do not think my personality matches how I look 😂

[Xia1994]

I try to date my types, especially personality, value and belief wise, I tried dating guys who weren't my type and it never worked out.

[Passerby2]

No. And very rarely is someone you actually find highly attractive going to reciprocate genuine interest in you. It might be easier to get into an ivy league university than find true love.

[Phoenix98]

Lol well I'm not with any of my exes so obviously not.

[CaptainSmartass]

I've been told by quite a few women that I'm good looking, so yeah, I guess I am.

Simples...

[AnusNdaPainus]

No

my type hates me but likes my friends but my friends type likes me so there’s a lot of pumping and dumping going on

[noohair]

I am too strange and unique to be a type, unless it is the type that does not fit in to any one type.

[Jennz6]

I’m everyone’s type

[Jerre]

@jennz6 I bet you are. Certainly my type!

[Jennz6]

@Jerre thanks Jerre 💕💯

[Rosexøxø]

I couldn’t agree more 💯

[Jennz6]

@Rosexøxø pm me @Rosexoxo

[Rosexøxø]

I’ll sure try! :]

[Rosexøxø]

I did send you a request follow but not sure if it went through @jennz6

If you need any advice at the moment and it doesn’t work try following me or checking notifications. If it’s urgent feel free to share here. Which ever works best for you 💯💖

[Drew-1990]

I'm going to have to say no

[me122]

type type type type i am dealing with murders right now i don't have time for teenagers crap.

[IDoNotConsent]

I did not consent to seeing the word "murders" today.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What TYPE of murder are you dealing with?

[me122]

@IDoNotConsent i come on this site for genuine advice as everyone around me is a mornon and i am being thretened by two murders and i keep seeing thoses dating clichees about type and stuff sorry i lash out.

[me122]

sorry i put mornon i meant moron (people in my life including police are morons)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You should go to police instead of Gag 😜

[IDoNotConsent]

Oh sorry. I'm just a fuсking troll using a pink account, but the account being pink isn't what prevents me from being bаnned. Rather it's my phallic shaped head that allows me to slip past the janitor dyke's attempts to censor me.

[me122]

@IDoNotConsent what ever this site is full of shit but its less fuced up than real life for me right now two people i cared about turned out to be murderers and there is nothing i can do to help them and i am just fed up with my grandmother who is so self cantered. honestly i rather spend time with merderer than self centered people they are the worst. alway talking about me me me me me me me me me mand when i tell her she was a child abuser she denies it she isn't even sorry. she claims i am being mean to her harrassing her the poor old lady. she just an old child abuser.

[me122]

my grandmther also talks about types seriosuly she 85 and still talking like a hight school girl "he is my type aw me too he is soo my type" at 85 i had to explain to her that types was shallow and thats not how you find a husband. i mean in a way its kind of sweet for an 85 but i can't help but be angry at her for being involved in child neglect and abuse. i know she is old but i can't help it i am too angry.

[sawno]

Then why click on the question?

[teamvic]

Hmmm that s good question, probably not

[WhitneySnow]

In general, yes

[minzgeprahl]

No, my type is always into bubbly extroverted blondes while I’m an introverted cynical Asian girl

[Zoi99]

Yes I am a gym person. I like similar style.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Groovy. Thoughts on his choice in cars out of curiosities? E. g. if you like Audi, should he drive German also or a marquee brand? And not say, a Toyota lol? 😆😋

[Fuentes]

I don't really got a type ill fk them all.

[ab2shifty]

This got me thinking 🤣

[eagle1951]

I can't type lol

[itsclearlynicholas]

Wisest words 😉😬

[IDoNotConsent]

Well, @brainwashed_sheep is into banging RILFs and script kiddies, so you're probably good even that way.

[Ms_Facesitter]

I am! :)

[serious]

Yes of course.

[aceleon]

i don't know? i'm single.

[MemeSupreme]

probably not

[Yannae]

I am but I don't know why.

[jadeXcatastro62]

Nope not necessarily, 😕.

[Fireguy17]

Must be, my wife seems to think so.

[DJB72]

No idea. Absolutely clueless.

[CozyCoffin]

I'm nobody's type.

[bobby_bush_eater]

I don't believe in the your type crap...

[Dongie]

Nope

[elaphe]

I certainly hope so.

[Messiking]

I most like girls similar to me. So mybe yes.

[Sonorous]

Nahhhh

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What’s your type tho?

[Sonorous]

nah u gonna laugh

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Happens that I am just in need of a good laugh

[Sonorous]

[Sonorous]

left

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Aww, no… She’s cute. I refuse to laugh at her. But yeah, got your point haha

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You’ve got a good taste

[Sonorous]

oh my b I meant the one on the right

[Enginn]

%100

[Heolurt]

Nope

[litty736]

Nope