Guys, Would you try this?

[CovetedDUCHESS]

If you were in a sexless or unhappy relationship or marriage, would you get happy ending massages from either a paid establishment or someone else who offered it?

[Xepshunall]

No. I'd just wait 'til she falls asleep and seduce her body. Even when you can't seduce her mind and soul, her body will beg for attention if you get it excited. Women aren't as in control of themselves as men are. Especially just before and just after their period, their hormones rage and they almost need sex. If it's been months since she got with you, she's getting with someone else.

[veganrogue]

I'd end that relationship before it ever got to that point. No sense in being unhappy with somebody if they are not giving you what you need. Life is so much richer (or it can be) if you don't settle for misery. So many humans on this planet to give you exactly what you need, so why settle?

[AviatorTom]

I've never been in that situation, but if I were, I suppose I would investigate all options.

[CovetedDUCHESS]

What do you mean

[AviatorTom]

"all options" would be any way to satisfy my sexual needs, and that would include a happy-ending massage,

[CovetedDUCHESS]

Can we talk in private about it?

[AviatorTom]

I don't block any DMs...

[CovetedDUCHESS]

I sent a pm

[GoodEnoughThen]

Sure. Probly discuss with my partner first. Guessing since they don't want to have sex with me, they wouldn't necessarily care if Imet my personal needs elsewhere. Fwiw, massage parlors are overrated, just like orgasms. And getting a handy at a massage parlor is not the same as an emotional affair.

[bowenw]

I have never thought about this before. It may be an option if I felt comfortable at the establishment. I would have to find out more.

[FunkyMonkee]

Possibly. Especially if I knew I was never gonna get it again from my girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

No. For one thing I don't like massages. The thought of a perfect stranger touching my body is not enjoyable, never-ending the happy ending.

But either way, that's still cheating. So no. If you need that release end the relationship.

[RedInnocent68]

In a relationship, no. If not, maybe. I know I can be pretty demanding, but if I’m in sexless relationship, it won’t be a relationship for long… 🤔

[ThrillSeeker01]

I got one when I was visiting Bangkok one time (when I was on the outs with someone)

[CovetedDUCHESS]

I sent you a pm

[CovetedDUCHESS]

I want to know more

[KrakenAttackin]

If your partner denies you sex it is default permission for you to seek sex elsewhere.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be in a sexless or unhappy relationship.

[exitseven]

No, that would be cheating.

[Smile456]

I just use my hand lol

[Nice222]

I am considering it. But I haven’t yet.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn't. It's unfair.

[GoodEnoughThen]

What's unfair? What if the partners agree to it? Or or what if they both decide to go to a massage parlor?

[Opinion Owner]

It's unfair that they get paid to give a massage but I don't

[davidleeautry]

Only if my chick was a part of it.

[Anonymous]

No... I have a very low sex drive

[Jamie05rhs]

HELL to the NO!

[Rc2020]

Yeah

[CovetedDUCHESS]

Sent a pm