Sorry in advance for the long paragraph. This guy just really confuses me.
He runs through my mind all day. I only see him whenever I go to church but I have not seen him in 3 weeks and Sunday made it a month because I didn't go. I saw that he started Tinder about 2 weeks ago. I wanted to swipe right but I was procrastinating and now don't see him anymore. I don't know if he got off or if Tinder is hiding profiles. I really like how he dresses. He is a handsome guy. He is the only guy I can't talk to because he makes the shyness come out of me. He did show signs of liking me before and he even told his parents that he liked me before he even told me. He still never told me that he liked me. His parents are always watching me. His mom would always say hi and his dad just gives me the look. One time him and his dad were talking and I looked at my crush and his dad told him. But I was already in the car and my dad drove off. My dad's car was tinted but I saw him looking my way. The only problem is that I am so afraid to talk to him and I know he likes me. It's so obvious but I don't like the center of attention and people are always in my business there. He had Tinder before and came off months ago and at that time he had his Instagram on there. His Instagram used to be private now it's been public for a while. Should I add him? Would he judge my Instagram because It's lame and I have two posts and 93 followers? He has over 1800 followers. Sometimes he would walk in front of my area but would look and even talk to me. He never makes it obvious near me and if he knows I'm looking his way. His song on Tinder was "wasting time" by Brent Faiyaz. I was think that song was meant for me but I don't know. Maybe I'm overthinking it. Why would he do this?
He runs through my mind all day. I only see him whenever I go to church but I have not seen him in 3 weeks and Sunday made it a month because I didn't go. I saw that he started Tinder about 2 weeks ago. I wanted to swipe right but I was procrastinating and now don't see him anymore. I don't know if he got off or if Tinder is hiding profiles. I really like how he dresses. He is a handsome guy. He is the only guy I can't talk to because he makes the shyness come out of me. He did show signs of liking me before and he even told his parents that he liked me before he even told me. He still never told me that he liked me. His parents are always watching me. His mom would always say hi and his dad just gives me the look. One time him and his dad were talking and I looked at my crush and his dad told him. But I was already in the car and my dad drove off. My dad's car was tinted but I saw him looking my way. The only problem is that I am so afraid to talk to him and I know he likes me. It's so obvious but I don't like the center of attention and people are always in my business there. He had Tinder before and came off months ago and at that time he had his Instagram on there. His Instagram used to be private now it's been public for a while. Should I add him? Would he judge my Instagram because It's lame and I have two posts and 93 followers? He has over 1800 followers. Sometimes he would walk in front of my area but would look and even talk to me. He never makes it obvious near me and if he knows I'm looking his way. His song on Tinder was "wasting time" by Brent Faiyaz. I was think that song was meant for me but I don't know. Maybe I'm overthinking it. Why would he do this?
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Well me personally I just like a girls pic “accidentally” and I just message them. It sounds like you're still in high school , I was shy around girls too but then I grew up
When you dont have to face people everyday there's a lot less pressure because its not the end of the world if they say no , you won't have to ever see them or their friends in person again
Obviously I didn't grow up too much I only graduated 4 years ago, but I definitely grew balls
Guys can possibly get called creepy when rejected but girls dont have that problem. Guys dont get weirded out by girls approaching they like it
It sounds like you two have a good history together he's not gonna make fun of you
I graduated years ago. It’s just that he makes me not act myself. Other guys it’s so easy to talk to them but for him I get so nervous. I had a crush on this guy since 11th grade and I was so surprised that he actually did like me too. It’s just the fact that he told his parents before me and his parents are so involved with getting him to date me.
You should try to gather the courage to approach him on Instagram if that is the most comfortable place to text him. I know you're probably shy and nervous to send the first text but I think it is the best approach in your scenario.
I wouldn't worry too much on the difference in the amount of followers between you and him