Will uh marry this girl?

[Anonymous]

If a girl have had only 1 boyfriend in the past whom she loved badly n stayed loyal in her relationship throughout. She dreamt of being his wife only, spend the life with him. And the guy just used ditched her , used her and disappeared; left away. & After that she never moved on with any new boyfriend... she's just waiting 4 her marriage nd a life partner who would truly love her the way she does...; i. e true n being loyal.

But if u were the guy to choose to marry her or not?
Wouldn't uh marry her just because she had a past (physically)? Would u judge her on that basis? Despite her being that much loyal girl in nature?

[Oliverlogan263]

Man, that's a tough one. On one hand, I can really feel for her, you know? Wanting that special connection with someone and having it crushed like that would mess anyone up. To stay so loyal and still believe in love after that shows she's a really caring person inside.

At the same time though, I'd still be a little worried jumping into marriage right away. Not cause of her past physically, that doesn't matter to me. But just wanna make sure we really know each other first before making such a big commitment. After being hurt so bad, can't blame her for having some baggage still.

I think if we took it slow at first, really communicated well and built trust over time, it could work. Let her open up fully about what she's been through so I understand where she's coming from. And if I'm serious about her too, prove I'm different than that other guy through my actions.

As long as we made each other truly happy every day and had that deep connection, I could see myself marrying someone like her eventually. But just gotta be careful of past wounds, you feel me? Start as friends and see where it goes from there.

[sawno]

No idea, I don't know what she is like. But loyal in nature is a good sign.

[noohair]

Everyone has a past. I don't live in the past, I can't grow that way.

[iFarted]

Well... aside from her being loyal, I don't know much else of her at all...