Is it still cheating if a woman gets intimate with another woman while drunk?

[Anonymous]

Scenario:

Woman is in a relationship for 4 years and even though she's more into men, there was a part of her that's into women too but she doesn't like all women, just certain types. Then one day during a drunken night, she gets intimate with one of her female friends who is also like her.

It wasn't with a man though so it's not too much of a betrayal I guess. Is it still cheating?

[KrakenAttackin]

Nooooooo... just like having anal/oral sex with a rando at a night club isn't cheating because it only happens with him once.

[Asker]

but that's a man. She didn't have intimacy with a guy. It was with her female friend at her house.

[RebelinSteel]

Cheating is cheating, gender is not a get out of jail card.

[Asker]

Oh ok. Though I'm guessing it's not as bad if it's with another woman.

[RebelinSteel]

Does not matter if it’s a woman or a guy.

If you were dating a guy, would you consider it cheating if he had sex with another guy?

[Berethor]

It still cheating, she should not got drunk, but girl on girl don't count right? :)

[msc545]

Oddly enough, in the past, I had no reaction to girl on girl with my ex at all really. No jealousy at all actually.

[Asker]

This is what I've heard how several men tend to react... that if it's with another woman it's not that bad.

[KrakenAttackin]

@msc545. I agree but the problem is girl/girl soon leads to girl/guy. Bisexual women are very promiscuous in my experience..

[msc545]

@KrakenAttackin good point!

[Booklover_90]

Yes. The gender of the person is irrelevant.

[Ladyblanche]

Yeah

[Asker]

oh ok

[sheikalana]

Absolutely!