Should I be worried if my boyfriend said sex is different from love?

[Anonymous]

I’m very clear that loyalty is the most important thing in a relationship for me.

He has told me I’m the most beautiful, he doesn’t want to be with anyone else and blah blah and promises that’s true. I told him just tell me if that is not you because that is what I expect and if you can’t live up to that there’s no point in me being with him.

then he says this and stuff like “at the end of the day you’re the one I love and come home to”

[7Phoenix7]

I'm confused. He said sex is different from love, and "at the end of the day you're the one I love and come home to. " Sounds like he's trying to get you to be okay with him cheating on you and that's not okay.

[dynamicyandere]

Right? The whole, “At the end of the day you’re the one I love and come home to.” Sounds like he wants to be dismissive about some other concern. And, if that concern is him sleeping with other people, it sounds like he’s talking about an open relationship. If an open relationship is not something the OP has signed up for, I don’t think this will be a good match.

[7Phoenix7]

@dynamicyandere Yes exactly, I agree.

[Asker]

I’m just confused why he would do that when I’ve been more then clear with how strongly I feel about that

[jaskin777]

No I don't think u should be worried

Because he is right..


Some "boys" are just out there to get pussy

But if he truly loves u. He will show u including making love with u

[Gent207-2]

You don't trust him or you're incapable of trusting anyone

Seek help