Is it normal that my boyfriend keeps talking about sex not he knows very well we will never do it unless we got married?

[Anonymous]

I have a caring supporting boyfriend he always supports me he treats me very well and always makes me feel like iam the most beautiful girl on earth and he knows how to cheer me up when i down my only problem is that he talks a lot about sex and i feel uncomfortable beacause of my thoughts and beliefs i always change the topic sometimes he says you got me of the mood but he keeps talking in normal way i mean he didn’t get angry or treat me in a bad way when i do that but i wonder sometimes does her really loves me and just sharing his feeling and what he wants to do with me or he fulfilling his desires by just talking?

[LegendaryIcon]

how do you know you're in a relationship if you haven't had sex yet

you're literally just proving that you're in a friendship, with a boyfriend girlfriend label. that's all this is

like friends with benefits, without the benefits. just a label

[Asker]

In our culture and religion it’s not normal to have sex without marrying.. but we hangout together holding hands sometimes he kiss me on cheeks but this is our limits and we can have so much fun together and share a lot feelings without having sex :)

[LegendaryIcon]

Like i said

it's friends with benefits, with a boyfriend girlfriend label, and without the full on friends with benefits

it's not a relationship

[Wise4myage]

That's normal for a guys who's horny and trying to change your mind.

[Asker]

He knows that he can’t in our religion we cannot do sex without getting maried , he just wants me to keep talking with him when he talks about that but even this talk makes me feel bad not because iam not loving him

[Wise4myage]

What about oral sex? Can you do that?

[Asker]

No we can just hold hands give a little hugs or kisses on cheeks and sometimes he kisses my hands when he do that I show him that iam happy but if he needs more i will definitely say no

[Wise4myage]

Well, I feel for the guy, I really do.

[Asker]

What does that mean😅

[Wise4myage]

It means he's gonna be hard up till you get married.

[all_hayl]

Lots of people are sexually active even though their religion says not to. What religion are we talking here? I’m not suggesting that you compromise. In fact, quite the opposite. I’m assuming you’re a Christian?
Regarding what others have said about it being hard to wait; I got news - marriage is hard! If you can’t be patient and wait for marriage (if that’s the choice you have made), then marriage is gonna be THAT MUCH HARDER. Forget how hard it’s gonna be. That how people quit - by thinking about how hard it’s gonna be.
by the way, how old are you?

[devilish-cutie]

its normal to have sexual need and desires and he has them
if he knows your beliefs and accept them than he knows he cannot have sex with you just yet but that doesn't mean you cannot disscuss sex and you should be able to talk about it

[Asker]

Of course i know that i have desires for him too but iam not able to show that for him when we hang out together i let him touch me ( not in private areas) kiss my cheeks or hand i smile when he do that but when he gets deeper talking about sex i feel uncomfortable

[devilish-cutie]

well tell him you are not yet comfortable to talk about sex
i think he just want to talk about it, maybe he wants to see what he is waiting for, to have something to look forward too

[Anonymous]

That’s very unusual

[Asker]

How?