Is it bad that I don’t care much about how much a guy makes as long as I’m attracted to him and he’s in love with me?

[Anonymous]

I also don’t like guys who flaunt their wealth too much.
I have a good job and can afford myself all the things I want so I’m not depending on someone to support me fully.

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+1 y

Oh yeah to clarify I don’t mention anything about my financial situation or status. I refrain from the word independent lol

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+1 y

I’ve dated really wealthy men before and honestly I don’t get why so many women would want to date them. Lol. Some of them are just plain bad people with shit personalities and also a lot of them are stingy af. I am just simply mentioning that to debunk the idea that those are the men a lot of women advise to go for.

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah, I don't think it's bad at all that money isn't a huge factor for you. Attraction and how they treat you is way more important. As long as a guy has his stuff together enough to take care of himself, that's really all that matters.

It's cool that you're independent and don't need a guy to support you completely. That takes a lot of pressure off finding someone. And it means you can focus more on if you actually like spending time with them versus their bank account.

Plus guys who flaunt money are usually compensating for something anyway. Who cares what they drive or how big their house is, as long as they make you laugh and are loving that's all that really counts, right? Seems like you've got your head on straight. As long as you feel good with someone, don't stress too much about the financial stuff.

[Jkgordon]

Decent guys don’t flaunt their wealth, it’s apparent. Stop being masculine and keep your money and independence on the down low.

[mandyfire98]

Not bad at all. As long as he can financially take care of himself then I'm good. I actually make more money than my boyfriend.

[mandyfire98]

I've Never met your mom.

[mandyfire98]

Is she married to your dad still?

[mandyfire98]

So if she cheated then yes you are probably a son of a bitch. I'm sorry.

[mandyfire98]

At his house

[mandyfire98]

He won't. He's happily married.

[Roudyrebel8]

Np that's actually the way it should be