What would you do if you found out if your The Other Lover?

[Francesca1994_]

When I found out I was The OW I informed my exes partner.

[theREELZNEEZZ]

I've been in that role many times. Knowingly and unknowingly.

I answered this question precisely because someone reached out to me THIS VERY NIGHT who is a bit bored with their fiance and is "exploring," and just so happened to somehow find me.

She's pretty cute. So, I mean, if she takes it further, I will again find myself the Other Lover.

I mean... if I was 22 I'd be indignant (ha I WAS) because I didn't really have a nuanced shades of gray view of the world.

Now, in many cases with women, you can actually be saving their relationship or helping it out.

Like, her dude isn't hitting the right buttons at the moment and she has needs. So she gets her rocks off for a bit until she decides it's enough and goes back. VERSUS a marriage or good partnership (in all other ways) ending.

[RebelinSteel]

I think I would leave, however it would be tempting to tell the other person

[fantasticass]

Nothing, you put yourself in that situation. Why call anyone 🤔

[Francesca1994_]

Cause I am no one side piece.

[fantasticass]

Then leave. He will find someone else to fu*k...

[Monalisa77]

If the person lies to you, how did u put urself in that situation

[fantasticass]

Just leave, it's not rocket science

[Squatting_Slav]

Carry on resume as normal see other women on too lol

[FenixG45]

It was odd, because that never happened to me before

[Avicenna]

Yeah, tell the partner

[Roudyrebel8]

Been there done that it sucks

[Luckycharms12]

Walk away

[In_Trance]

Leave