Guys, when you’re dating a girl how do you bring out the feminine energy in her and tone down her masculine energy?

[Anonymous]

[This question is exclusively made not for sissies]

[Anonymous]

I would recommend passively encouraging your partner to take the lead and to appeal to their perspectives on things; feminine energy is soft and subtle, but it can also be persuasive and seductive - being authoritative is masculine, but there is nothing wrong with gentle persuasion and seduction; this could be a great way to redirect your energy that remains true to your personality, while giving him room to breath and without stepping on his toes.

A great example of feminine but authoritative women are cowgirls; they know what's what, but they riff of their ability to persuade softly rather than barking orders to their hands - and when it comes to their partner; they are receptive, non authoritative, and softer. Encouraging them to take the lead, even if she subtly starts things.

I think this is the key to being feminine while being driven; Subtlety. Feminine women who like to have a level of soft control use persuasion through casual language, nudging conversations, and giving their partner ideas for him to take the lead in. This makes her feel more feminine, while witnessing her guy act more masculine.

[sawno]

I don't, if I am with someone chances are its because she already has that perfect blend of femininity and masculinity. Masculine enough to be relational and enjoy the same hobby's and interests and me, Feminine enough to be very caring and still present feminine. There is no need for me to bring anything out, she can just be herself around me.

[aceleon]

not acting like a boy scout and show attitude when there are things that ticks me off. also knowing communication and such things kills passion.

[boggboss]

Sorry what why would I need to bring out her feminine enegy what am I dating a transformer

[Todd9612]

Be sweet, treat her like a lady should be treated.

[Anonymous]

I don't. That's not my job, it's hers.