Guys, can you talk to your girl about problems in your relationship?

[Daniela1982]

Or does she not want to hear it and just walk away?

[Anonymous]

Minor problems yes. But bigger issues it’s a lot harder especially if you’re honest w her. She’s not focused on what was said, she’s focused on how it made her feel. Most women can’t take the truth about things. Many of them have a hard time looking in the mirroring and asking theirselves is it really me? Am I the issue? Maybe I’m too argumentative. Maybe I’m this. Maybe I’m that.

[Daniela1982]

Well truthfully, men can act the same, not just women.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes they can but not to the extent of women. That’s why women come up w all these words to make themselves feel better about the real truth. Like plus size models. Women aren’t promiscuous they’re owning their sexuality. If a man won’t date a fat girl than he’s called fat phobic. All this is stuff that women come up w. Many of them live in delusion.

[Daniela1982]

What if you are a Kim Kardashian lookalike?

[Opinion Owner]

What about it?

[love_conquers_lust]

I can speak vaguely. Not just relationships, women and people in general. We all have our thresholds and it can be emotionally draining being everyone's shoulder to cry on. This gets lost in translation when one puts their foot down and says "I don't want to hear it" and don't follow up with ".. because I've already listened to a bunch of other problems today."

So, I think it wise to ration compassion so there is always time and energy for your spouse every day. That's on each person to know thyself, as well as anticipating how much investment will be required for each problem encountered. Takes practice.

[ProbablyClueless]

The women I've been with in the past had absolutely no interest in entertaining conversations like that. If there were any issues in the relationship, it was things I needed to to fix.

Thankfully, those women are not in my life anymore.

[Daniela1982]

Did she let the door hit her on the ass on the way out?

[ProbablyClueless]

I"m sad to admit that my sense of self worth was not where it should have been earlier in life! I have since learned my lesson

[Daniela1982]

We all learn lessons now and then. But that's how we grow.

[Likes2drive]

I’ve tried but they usually don’t want to hear it because they don’t like being wrong or accountable

[Daniela1982]

But who does want to be wrong or held accountable?

[Likes2drive]

Neither so that’s why it doesn’t work

[sawno]

My last relationship we had mutual open communication and addressed issues early. My next relationship I expect nothing less.

[Sparkie460]

We've worked out all the minor problems years ago. We do very well at communicating in our relationship.

[soe11]

• You can, depending on mood.
• I got no problems with my girlfriend.

[Mangospacho]

Yeah, I can. If I couldn’t, I wouldn’t have married her.

[NathanDavis]

they sure let me know... lol

[Daniela1982]

😯🤔🤐

[tiloj3059444]

No, if there are problems I simply end the relationship.

[Daniela1982]

Well, I hope you work on them first before you bail.

[CubaPirate]

30 plus years together says we must do

[Daniela1982]

Better than 30 years of hell. 😅