Ladies if your guy is cheating for a long time with 1 person would you assume there could be others he cheated with at the same time?

[Anonymous]

I'm married for 15 Yeats found out hrs having a long term affair for years. The thought passed my mind maybe he has more than her. Would you even consider that? Like maybe that shpuld have Bee my first thought months later

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So instead of just going a wall on her I'm not sure what to do

[Anonymous]

As a man I’d say it’s possible. But if he’s been having an affair w this girl for years chances are he’s invested in her emotionally. So I would say no I don’t think he’d have another girl besides her. Maybe in the beginning when he first started doing this. But as time went on I’m almost positive he has feelings for her that are more than just sexual.

[Asker]

You're correct because I just found he he gave her 10,000 of our money for a new car.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry to hear that. So what’s your next step?

[HelpfulWoman]

lmao. i wouldn't be around to even find out.

[Sparkie460]

It's possible he had others besides her

[Sparkie460]

Does he know that you suspect him of cheating

[Asker]

Yes he's in denial though I can tell.

[Asker]

I'm keeping quiet for business reasons. I think he feels it's a I'm purposely turning a blind eye

[Sparkie460]

Do you own a business together and that's why you're keeping quiet

[Asker]

No he's started up a new biz and right now is in tons of debt. I'm waiting for the financial gains they will. l be significant. I'm a SAHM 15 years. Plus I have teenage girls almost done with HS

[Sparkie460]

Ok. I understand. The only way to know for sure if there are/ were others is to check his phone and/or computer