Am I dragging this relationship on?

[may_gen09]

Around two weeks ago my boyfriend and I decided to break up because we weren't connecting anymore, we were more distant, we hardly talked, and when we did we got into stupid fights. It wasn't good. When we broke up I was happy to be out of the relationship, but now I really want to be with him. I miss him so much. I really did love him and I still do. But he doesn't want to get back together. It hurts really bad to know the person you love doesn't want to be with you. I know it's been two weeks but I want to be with him even though I know he's not for me.

[udolipixie]

Yes you're dragging this on.

Logically think about hwy do you want him even though you know he's not for you.

Do you miss the title/status of being someone's girlfriend? Get help you have serious dependency issues.

Do you miss being in a relationship? Figure out if this is looking for a rebound before you delve into a new relationship.

Do you miss just being with him? If you just want to be with him as a person then be with him as friends.

[italykam]

Sorry to say this but yes absolutely, dragging it on right now and it should not be that way. You have feelings for him, those don't go away over night, but you need him out of your life in order to move on if you still have feelings that he doesn't share anymore.

[urbanchic]

Yes, you are draggin this on and it is hurting you and annoying him. Just walk away and find fun things to do that don't involve couples. Give yourself a break and learn to be strong.

[BCRanger10]

You would be dragging it on if you went back to him. What you are feeling is normal, wanting to be back with him. I used to be friends with a girl who dated an enormous scumbag, yet even after they broke up she still "loved" him.

[Love2Ball]

Find someone better and can treat you the way you deserve to be treated

[CosmoGal]

If you know he's not for you, be strong, & stay away from him.